Break Up & Divorce
2 mo

Why do I feel awful about breaking up with my boyfriend? We’re just about finish?

Five days ago my boyfriend (Let’s call him Evan) got the job and he texted me. I said congratulations and when does he start. He took a while back to text back and he said the next day. He started his new job three days ago and I texted him, “Hey baby I am so proud of you. Good luck on your new job. He didn’t respond to me. He didn’t respond to me the whole day or even Thursday.
My bestie (let’s call her Francie) told me I need to block Evan because she saw his instagram Wednesday evening (she’s not following him) story that he is celebrating his new job with his girlfriend and our guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) was right all along. I told her, “Oh no not you too! How do you know that girl is his girlfriend? It can be anyone. He has a sister.”
She sent me a screen shot of my boyfriend with another girl. She was like, “I TOLD YOU!”
I said, “Don’t say I told you like that! No need to be aggressive!” She didn’t respond.
Three hours later she texted, “WELL we warned you! Eddy also told you so! Face it, you were wrong. Can’t be perfect and right all the time. We warned you. We told you he was no good. Drop Evan before you get hurt even more. Do it. No exceptions, arguing back or nothing. Plus Eddy was just looking out for you. He OBVIOUSLY is in love with you and you took him for granted! He may not be good looking or 6’5, but he is boyfriend material. You’ve just been paying attention to guys that are out of your league and jerks. Let go of that stupid check list!”
I can’t believe my boyfriend is with another girl get this, she’s petite! I texted him I needed to take to him this morning, got ignored and I called.
Francie and I yesterday after work at a dinner outing asked if I dumped him. I said no and she scolded at me that I need to and demanded me that I break up with him since I didn’t do it.
I didn’t after we finished with dinner. Man Francie is annoying. So I dumped my boyfriend for cheating on me.
Well there goes my happily ever after.

Why do I feel awful about breaking up with my boyfriend? We’re just about finish?
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