The guy I started dating had behaved badly with me in front of some people he calls his friends
He asked me to visit him to meet up but when I went there, he was already sitting with the friends. I sent him a text asking him if he was free but he didn't reply.
I eventually had to go upto him and he acted like he had no clue that I came to see him. I got angry and started asking why was he behaving like this and how he asked me to come and see him and he was acting irritated. This all happened in front of those friends.
They were all looking at us.
I was furious and had ended our relationship that time but he wouldn't accept it and kept saying sorry and after a month, I decided to take him back.
However, I noticed that he still talks to these friends and hangs out with them. He was not even their friend nor is he close to them. They study in the same room hence they all know each other. The 4 people he was sitting with are close friends with each other and 2 of them are dating each other.
But he isn't close.
I dont like him hanging out with them or talking to them and I feel like breaking up with him on this basis.
Am I overreacting or am I wrong here?
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U want to break up with someone because u want to pick who he can have as friends
I dont like his friends because of how he behaved in front of them
So break up with him for being a asshole but how u worded this makes u look controlling
I already broke up that time but he didn't accept it so after a month we got back together. But he still talks to them and I don't like that
Again if u don't want to be with him end it but breaking up with someone because u want to control who they are friends with is crazy
He insulted me in front of them amd i hate them
They didn't insult u he insulted you lol is your brain working how can u hate them when he is the one that did something to you
Because they gossip about us
And if he chills with them then he is happy with that
That's why he can't have friendship with then anymore
Again clearly he can u seem really weird your happy with a partner that will treat u loke shit but are upset he has shit friends lol
You are not overreacting and I think its time for you to move on from this guy.