Sometimes doing less is doing more. Damage has been done. Touching the wounds will only hurt.
So... Let them heal!
You have apologized to him. That conveys that you regret your wrongdoings (if any) and you take the responsibility of the situation and are willing to sort things out. That's what apology means and you cannot practically say (and 'do' in ldr) anything more than that.
Now the more you'll try to get his response, the worse the situation will get and the chances of him coming back will decrease. Give him space and let him calm down because right now, he is not in the situation to think properly (neither do you). Begging him will further annoy him and your desperation will make you look guilty in the situation which will further justify his decision of breaking up with you.
Furthermore, relationships work the best with proper power balance. If you're the only one afraid of losing the other, while he isn't, then even if this issue is resolved, another one will arise in future and you'll be the one afraid of losing her loved one again which isn't the best place to be.
Pleading makes you lose that power balance. So remember, the one who lost the least temper in the heat of the moment and simply apologized and gave the space, keeps one's power the most and is the least vulnerable.
I wish you best of luck.
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He probably is, and there's nothing you can do to stop it. You can't control other people, and trying to is a fool's errand.
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Just give him some space and time to calm down. You've apologized and he knows how you feel, just let that sit with him a bit. He'll come to you when he's ready to talk.
At this point, there's nothing you can do. He's either going to break up with you or he's not.
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Do u understand how toxic asking how to prevent him breaking up with me sounds
can't stop what has already happened, all you can do is accept it and move on and try to fail better next time.
ldr doesn't work
why you're putting up with an ldr, i dkOpen your eyes, it is over. He's just too weak to say it.
Have you ever even met? Find a local boyfriend.
You can't control him
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