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Hii, we're dating now for almost a month, he was all lovey dovey to me at first and talked about our future together. Suddenly, few days ago when I soft launched him on my social medias, he suddenly turned cold towards me. I tried breaking up with him but he gives me reasons that he's with his father's construction, busy with work, he's sensitive about the weather and his recent alibi is that he'll be working on evenings throughout July. When I get lovey dovey with him now, he doesn't respond it back with flirty actions like he used to. I tried confronting him about this but he says I'm the only one. But he doesn't call me 'babe, baby, my love' anymore. Just a while ago he told me he's going to sleep, but after 30 minutes, he have seen my reply. And his reactions in Kakaotalk are madly increasing. And when I tell him I'm going to shower, he used to send me flirty emojis but now he's not doing it.

Am I overthinking? 😭 Please help me, guys. I'm crying literally.

I had a gender reveal with my boyfriend yesterday, and he posted a story with me and asked if he should tag me in it I said yeah ofc… I was tired I went to bed and got on instagram when I woke up and saw he didn’t tag me. And this was our baby shower together. So I was like wtf, I get all these notifications from everyone that I was tagged or mentioned in their stories except him. So I’m like that’s weird so I go to his page to see if he tagged me in the comments or something like that. He didn’t so now I’m kinda confused like why didn’t he tag me. So I started thinking he didn’t want some women to see me. So I think of a women that has come between us in the past. A women who he said he had no contact with and that was blocked and it’s in the past. So I said okay and went with that but something told me to check his followers and sure enough the women is there and they are mutuals. So I called him and I was asking him what’s going on because he told me she was blocked. He then tells me that she was blocked at the time he told me but apparently we had a fight and he unblocked her and added her again and she then added him. Mind you we have not broken up since January and that breakup lasted 4 hours because not long after that I found out I was pregnant and had to tell him. And we discussed our issues and decided we should get back together and work it out. It’s now June and we have not had any breakups or periods of us not communicating. I just feel like whatever fight he’s talking about that we had, after we made up why didn’t he block her again. And also why would he turn to her in the moment it got difficult with us. He claims he didn’t communicate with her but I don't know. So this morning I didn’t have much time to talk but I told him. We need to take a break for about a week and figure everything out. And I feel he braving me to feel insecure when he told me he didn’t like how I looked 2 minutes into our gender reveal

My husband and I were married a year and a half ago and I never had the chance to have a bachelorette or bridal shower or anything of the sort… our pictures came out pretty bad from the wedding (our photographer was young and didn’t seem to realize that all the angles from below are not flattering to most people over 12)… We didn’t celebrate being engaged, and only received congrats from his side of the family while mine… fought the idea of me being married the whole time… We barely had a reception because of Covid… And while my husband had a bachelor party I wasn’t able to have a bachelorette because he was severely ill with Covid for the month leading up to our wedding and I was running on empty taking care of him… I don’t regret marrying him, but I realize I didn’t really have a single thought about the wedding in general beforehand… I wasn’t really sure what was going to happen, didn’t know what my hubby wanted for decorations that we pieced together the night before and day of, and I didn’t really do anything like special to get ready for the day… working in retail, I’ve seen a dozen bridesmaids come through with decor for bridal showers and bachelorette parties and stuff and moms and daughters looking at decorations in target and I just… I didn’t have that… my mum wanted pretty much nothing to do with the wedding, didn’t approve of me getting married, and only helped me pick out my wedding dress which ended up giving me a major bruise on my side and I only wore it for like 4 hours…. Idk… it was supposed to be some special day with lots of lead up and anticipation but… it was kinda meh and I just felt totally run down the whole time leading up (as I was in the middle of grad school). I guess… I just wish I had decided to plan and do a bachelorette or bridal shower and had a bond that encouraged my mum to actually want to be involved in the wedding…. is having regrets like this bad?