Now , he was doing trucking but quit that, and I support him , but he wants to shower with me the issue. I'm allergic to seafood, and he works with seafood. He will be getting off later than his trucking job, and I have to get my kids up for homeschool, and they'll be in bed around 9 pm. I don't mind showering with him , but he has a tendency to crawl in my bed without showering off from work. He gets off late, like after midnight, and has to eat, waking up my kids talking loud. He complains about me not being active with him in the bedroom moaning , but he wakes up my kids... I have a serious thing with hygienic him getting in my bed without showering is a red flag.. I've explained to him that he can cause me to have an allergic reaction, and I don't want to smell this stuff on him, especially my sheets. I don't mind him staying sometimes, but I love a man who takes care of his hygiene. He eats and drops food everywhere, plus don't clean up by himself. It's like taking care of another man child.. which I'm not about too. He's upset because we would spend less time together, but he chose this job that he was complaining about last month. I like a clean apartment. He sounds like a man-child and I'm not ready to move him in.. I've asked him to take the trash out just too see and he doesn't like to clean up by himself or do chores.
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I would end things. Sorry but if you have asked him and he isn't respecting this especially the fact that you are allergic to something. It's not worth staying with him
He needs his own place he gets off late and smells like seafood.. he said he was getting his own place
He needs to not ready to give up my space
Yeaaah, no thanks. Don’t need a man child, you already have kids lol
Exactly 💯 Giro I wish I could find a REAL MAN! WHEW ! he needs his own place plus I pay my own bills he's not good with money nor supports me.. 💯 he's not moving in here.. I love my independence and space without a man in here.
He needs to grow up and MATURE but yes girl another man child
Yep! It’s honestly such a big turn off as well, you can definitely find a much more mature, established man. Especially having him around your kids he needs to be a great role model of what a man should be. Right now their minds are like sponges, if you have a daughter it would suck for that to be an example of what a good man is. He needs to grow up and work on himself.
He needs to be a man and get away from his parents at 45 .. girl I'm sick of these immature ass men looking for mother replacements
At 45 we should be stable in life and established with career and finances including goals. I'm done dealing with men of today beyond him.. don't have the energy or time and I've been knowing him since high school
He can move in with his parents until he gets his life together separate homes he's not ready for a REAL WOMAN
I’m so glad you’re in a place where you’re strong enough to walk away from that bs lol it can be so hard. But you’re right, at that age he should be more established in life. Maybe not perfect but definitely not living with his mom and not taking care of himself. He needs to get his shit together so he can look back at 50 and he didn’t waste his whole life.
He can do that shyt alone I'm tured of these males he has nothing going for himself
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