How to get out of a rut!

[TracyF]

Not going to waste time here. Follow these Instructions.

First, get up out of bed. Shower with the best soap and wash your hair with the special shampoo. Shave legs, face, anywhere else you need to. And get clean. Change into new clothes, and go to the store. We're going into step two.

Second, to get a whole new style. Underwear, socks, shirt, bottoms, jacket, shoes, sunglasses, something new for every part of you. Buy something different, a tie, a dress, something new to try. And buy yourself a new fragrance. A perfume or something that you like. Prepare yourself for a new look. Get makeup, try new eyeliner, (guys think about trying eyeliner)

Third, go home and put it all together, make yourself into the dream version of yourself, the immaculately dressed and completely ready for anything version. Have your favorite meal, treat yourself right and feel brand new. Then get ready to take your look social.

Fourth, take pictures, meet new people, try something different, dance your way down the sidewalk, be confident in how great you are. And meet up with friends and anyone you know bring them with you as you lead them on an adventure and meet new potential partners. Maybe even go to a party.

Fifth, realize that you can do all these things, and be anything you want to be. It takes time to work through things but you can do it if you just give yourself a chance. You deserve self-care. Make time for it always.

[LeoZay]

The main thing about being in a rut is something needs to change. Typically something significant, that at least subconsciously, may feel overwhelming to change. You need to be honest with yourself and identify what's keeping you from moving forward and eliminate it.

[strateguy632]

who has time to do all that when "get out of bed" before morning job? and to who do you recommend to shave legs? who was your audience?

[TracyF]

Anyone can shave their legs. It's optional. And if you want to get out of a rut you have to make time. Like on a day off. Just use a little more brain power when reading.

[NetherlandsNar]

You need to get out of your comfort zone

[WanderingLoveWizard]

There's quite a bit more to it than that, but good effort.
Unfortunately, buying new clothes and dancing down the sidewalk won't be enough for most people. They're more than likely gonna have to make major life adjustments and possibly seek therapy, depending on what's causing them to be stuck