We don't get tired of each other at all. Currently economy so bad we can't work much. We spent 100% of time on the phone.
I get nightmares so he let's me sleep on the phone with him. We play video games together. Watch anime. Go for walks. Every doctor appointment. Even when he has side jobs he's texting me the entire time.
We were just talking about how for some reason we never get tired of each other. I don't feel drained or anything.
But we were googling things and it said space is important. But everytime we try to do the space thing it just feels so terrible.
This can't b healthy. I'm thinking about seeing a therapist or something. We r both introverted. And so much so we really have friends but like going months or even years without speaking to them. We like to keep isolated before we met and we both were single for over 7 years before we met.
I like being alone I like myself. And he does too we really just click a lot. I don't know
But I'm scared I read up on codependency but I don't kno I feel like I pay my bills fine without him I cook and shower and stuff i don't ask him to do things with me he just asks to come along and im down.
Bruh I don't know I'm kind of scared. I thought this would fade away but we been together 9 months now. We even fight but rarely and wen we do he always makes sure we fix it and talk it out. He cares a lot about my feelings and I really respect him.
He talks about marrying me and I would love that but I'm worried if we get together is this okay? Is this healthy? Is this normal? Why when we take time apart does it feel so bad? I feel so sad and he even says he be feeling like he's dying.
That can't be healthy right? How do we fix it?
Even now when I talk to anyone else the conversation feels so BORING and SLOW and STIFLING. I be checking my watch to see the time so I can hurry up and get back to him.
When we r together my brain feels at peace like I don't know. Please help I don't wanna be codependent
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Remember one thing. Money is important in life to fulfil your basic needs and to make your life better. Ofc relationship is important, and money is not everything. But just like a healthy relationship, money is important in life too.
So balance your life properly
Thank you we really been looking but all we get are like side thing here and there. But it's all temp work for some reason it's very hard to find anything reasonable but we will keep trying. We r thinking of moving to a different area together and seeing if we have better luck somewhere else. And also we can be together. I became worried about us spending unhealthy amount of time together would impact us living together