Search Results: telling guys no

Why are my friends and parents telling me to just go out with guy friend and stop rejecting him?

I have a guy friend that I’ve known since 3rd grade. We’re good friends. In middle school he always asked me to be his Valentine and in high school. He kept asking me to school dances and prom. Twice I went with him but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend couldn’t get over her ex. What should I do?

I met her on an online dating platform because for some reason I couldn’t get a girlfriend no matter how hard I have tried. She is my first girlfriend. I asked her if she has an ex. She told me she had one whom was...

TimothyLee00

Xper 3 Age: 26

What’s going on here?

Okay soo this guy that I went to hs with and get my tree from hmu up about new stuff like he typically does ya know getting a friend update but out of no where asked if I had a boyfriend etc etc and then he asked if I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl calls you bro definitely friend zone right?

I first ask if I could work with her cause the boss sent me and some people like to work alone she says yes. Just started talking she started it basically then went quiet but when I noticed the awkward silence I just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy acts like he likes you during the school year, but then doesn’t try to get ahold of you all summer, what should you think?

So a guy at my school kept giving me a lot of attention at the end of the school year and other people in my class kept telling me he likes me. He flirted with me a lot, for a few weeks, and asked for my number. I gave it...

Brittanyrunner06

Xper 4 Age: 19

Why would a guy do this?

Ok so my ex he broke up with me via phone call the other day because i was asking to set up phone dates (we just recently went from seeing eachother every day ro long distance) then not even 10 minutes later he texts me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I the only one who sees this as a sign of interest rather than creepy?

My friend met a guy on Facebook dating two weeks ago. She’s extremely picky and was put off by his behavior and flat out rejected him. I think this guy has a lot of potential and was just really interested in her, and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, have you ever spanked your girl during or after an argument?

You ever spanked your girl just because? The other day I was really in a bad mood. Tired after work, and a lot of things on my mind. Noticed that my hubby didn't do one of his chores. We don't have kids. If I cook,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is the good friend of the guy I am interested in is telling me to shoot my shot with the guy I like?

I am friends with the guy I am asking for advice. But the guy I like and my friend are good friends, where they hang out a lot and help each other with life stuff. I asked the same friend on text if he genuinely thinks I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some girls and women always push guys or men that like them AWAY?

Like say this guy or man that’s liked a woman for YEARS but the lady doesn’t notice or pays any attention to them. They always chase after guys that are no good or don’t like them back. I understand they have no feelings...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Isn’t it crazy how time helps you to get over someone you once were so crazy over?

About 9 years ago I was with my first boyfriend and I swore I was so in love. I thought we would get married, have kids and run off into the sunset 🤣. He ended up leaving me for another girl and it hurt so bad. I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why should girls and women be forced or encouraged to date their male friends?

We shouldn’t have to be forced to date the guy that’s been there for us since day one, UNLESS we had feelings for them back. If we don’t have feelings and we’re honest, you can’t get angry at us. If a boy or man rejects a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I was starting to like this guy, but he's scaring me, Why won't he listen?

Y'all I'm really just on here to vent, so please be nice to me. I started talking to this guy, and at first everything seemed fine, but then I noticed a change in his behavior, a scary change. Being that we just started...

HeyimRae90

Xper 1 Age: 35

Why are my dates assuming I’m cheating on them?

I’ve been slowly getting back into dating after having been off the market for years and I had a few dates here and there well spaced apart. I take a minute to even pick out the person I want to speak to and usually...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Why do people get upset at girls and women reject men?

When boys and men do it, no big deal but a female they shame us. My family likes my guy friend and told me to give him a chance but I keep telling them I don’t like him romantically and I NEVER will. I’ve known him since...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I crazy or are these signs? PT 1?

I’ve known my crush for 9 years. We used to be really close but a couple years ago he stopped talking to me because I was coming on to him a little too hard and he didn’t have the same feelings. About a year later he...

Anonymous

(Under 18)