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So my boyfriend used to work with this female co worker and he sometimes talk about her and activities she has done with her boyfriend. There's been a couple times where we would do things that she has done with her boyfriend and 1\2 we have done worked out. So anything she kind of does or says it seems like he put her on a pedal stool. Also before she switched departments my boyfriend seemed to have liked these healthy snacks I would make and then all of a sudden he would keep asking for the healthy snacks for his "coworkers" every other week because he has told me she loved them as well as other coworkers. When she switched departments he all of a sudden stopped asking for the healthy snacks for him to bring into work.

He has also mentioned briefly one time considering switching departments where she is when talking about his career or ideas she has with her career. He said they are really good friends and he has had no feelings towards each other/ nothing has happened between them. Whenever I mentioned a double date or meeting her he seems hesitant to set something up with her because she lives a bit far but still manageable to meet halfway.

Am I overthinking this or do you think there's something there either between them/ him having feelings?

I broke up with my ex because my ex-boyfriend kept forgetting something that I said many times and kept forgetting his promise. (He explains that he keeps forgetting stuff because he was high on weed.) Because he forgot about it, he said I like to exaggerate stuff and forced me to apologize instead. I feel gaslighted, so we fight. We split after the same thing kept happening. So now he comes back, says he is a new man, and promises to be better. Should I consider reconciliation?