As a white American male why do I feel like I have this natural tendency to want to disconnect, socially ostracize, and remove myself from society?

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When I was younger I used to be really insecure and heavily concerned about trying to fit in.

But nowadays I honestly don’t give two flying f*cks that I have barely any friends. The small number I do have are perfectly alright with me.

However, the one thing I will say though is that I’ve never been in a relationship, and I’ve never actually had a close female friend throughout my entire life.

There are women I’ve met that I maybe just say a passing hello to, but I just never feel the inclination to try and pursue them or invite them on dates or anything like that.

I just feel like I have very little interest in actually getting to know the women I come across. The one girl I talk to on occasion is actually Russian, albeit with a boyfriend. But it isn’t like I’m actually scheduling time with her for obvious enough reasons.

And the same goes for most guys I come across as well. Most guys are also just as meaningless to me.

I don’t know if I have this medical condition or something, but I just feel as though I simply don’t care for the rest of society by and large.

I don’t consider myself a part of it, and I probably spend at least around 70% of my day in my room alone despite being in college.

I’m not depressed, I just feel that I hate what our modern society has become.

People lack maturity and it honestly just really frustrates me.

You have people that behave like 7 year olds despite being legal adults.

Then add to the fact that my friends tend to be other white Americans males that are socially ostracizing themselves as well. So it almost solidifies my beliefs because I tend to be drawn to others exactly like me. I’ve just never seen an alternative way of thinking, but I don’t want to try being a part of society either.

I just wish society would change its ways and adopt my views.

But I just feel as though the only way to not have it get to me is to distract myself with constant work.

Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

Because it’s hard for us to fit in society now that straight, white, Christian men are discriminated against and you probably feel as I do, which is society is so degenerate and full of indoctrinated people that it is difficult to relate to and want to interact with much of society. I tend to self isolate due to these factors myself with the exception of family and friends.

inhua · Accepted Answer

this is done on purpose by the elites who engage in social engineering

the political left is still harping on about revenge, reparations and retribution for the supposed crimes of males, white people, straight people, religious people etc.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because it´s a tendency of guys in modern days. I´m not from the US but I feel that too from time to time. My explanation would be that I don´t see anything meaningful in modern society alltogether. Like I have some friends and I have social contacts some are female most are male but I spend most time alone though and I´m ok with it. I think the issue is that many guys nowadays just float around because they don´t see the necessity to participate in society since it doesn´t seem like a necessity.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not just white American men. Decent respectable women who don't dress cheaply and don't sleep around like a professional (aka prostitute) look increasingly upon American society as a waste of time.

Many of my counterparts in medical haven't married Americans - they've either married European men or well educated & brought up well men from different ethnic groups such as a friend (pharmacist) who married an Egyptain Christian (doctor).

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American society is increasingly becoming a festering shithole unfit for all except the loudest and most ignorant amongst the population. Or those that other countries & cultures refer to as unwanted, undesirable, or bluntly social rejects.

If it continues down the death spiral of degenerate conduct it'll be beneath every country - including "3rd world" ones - in 20 to 30 years.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Are you trolling? Lmfao

It has nothing to do with being a white American male, but just your life experiences and how you've treated life so far. Also, you've likely spent way too much time on the internet and I'm assuming not forcing yourself to get out of that shell you are in. A lot of people in general go through that around our age, as the world is different now.

normalice · Answer

Far right media has been targeting young white males with animosity for decades. I fell for it too, for a time.

Anonymous · Answer

you're racist and you don't like the fact that society is becoming more mixed.. and ethnic

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because the powers that be regularly portray you as the root of all evil, toxic, slave owner, pedophile, rapist, bumbling idiot.

Anonymous · Answer

Because society constantly send the message that they don't want white American males.

Anonymous · Answer

schizoid personality disorder?

As a white American male why do I feel like I have this natural tendency to want to disconnect, socially ostracize, and remove myself from society?

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