Like I said , My best friend but with whom I have a crush on invited me over (she lives in a different city and we haven't seen each other in two months and she recently broke up with her boyfriend)
We were always very close, and we are always very protective/fond of each other.
She was happy to invite me to spend the night at her's since i only suggested to visit her for the day only (she did not want me to stress out about the idea as I can be quite anxious) but I said sure... We watched a movie together, sharing a blanket, laughed etc. We often had open talks (we are always very honest/vulnerable when we talk) When the night came and decided to go to sleep, she did not mind me sleeping in the same bed as her. I know she isn't looking for a relationship at the moment, and not the kind of sleeping around, so I made sure to be careful. Even though she did not mind me being close to her as we fell asleep (touching each other's feet, my hand on her shoulder, small things like that, my leg against hers, and she never tried to push me away.. but I did not dare to go further just in case.) In the morning, I asked if the fact of our body touched bothered her a little, and she replied "dont worry I know the bed isn't big so I did not mind" and laughed about her snoring or how my hand got stuck under her knees and could not get it out which she replied "you could had just woke me up lol" but I noticed we got a whole lot closer... like she even drank the rest of my orange juice like she did not care (we were both having a cold anyway) . when she drove me to the train station, she even walked me until the station (when normally we always said bye in the car) , hugged , promised we would do that again soon, and looked at me with a lot of fondness in her eyes when she left.. Do you think she still sees me as a platonic friend or maybe she is considering me as a bit more now that she is single again?
My best friend (whom I also have a crush on) invited me over to spend the night.. does she feel the same?
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Well, how different is this new dynamic to your friendship from before? Has the physicality changed significantly or has it always been a part of it? I'd always ask myself if I'd read too much into it and put things that have always been there on a pedestal bc of my own feelings. If that's not the case, I'd say there's a good chance that she could be in for more. From my own experience tho, I act this way around all of my close friends. Especially if I feel bad, like after a break-up when I need comfort. Communication is key here. I have no idea how you plan to go about it, but don't jump the gun at the risk of ruining your friendship.
Ummm yes go. This is definitely an invitation for possibly more. See where things lead but if she gets close to you physically that’s a good sign. Good luck!
You'll never know unless you accept her invite !!!