Is it normal for your girlfriend sleepover her ex boyfriend's house (she say we are good friends now)?

[loverdude]

My girlfriend is going to sleep her ex boyfriend's house..
So basically
Marie (my gf) went to james (first boyfriend... now she say we are good friends) house today
And she said she is going to sleep over and she went there 10 pm and still there
She literally texted me aus 1 am then no text
And it's 5.10 am there.
Basically he was the first boyfriend they broke up when they were 14-15 years old and then they stopped talking to each other and then again they started talking since last year and when they met last year she was single so had sex
She said they had 3 times
Once in james friends house
And this guy left for Australia and before he left they had sex
And now they together in Canada
And she is going to sleep in his house.
And also marie went there with her best friend Kate who is also a friend's of James. and kate returned back to her hostel at midnight.

I trust my girlfriend but I m feeling weird right now
Is this normal?

[cheapshotbob]

yeah its normal but if she wants to do that then you should be able t visit a girls friends house and sleep over and her not have a fit ver seeing how she has no issue with sleeping at her ex's which is my book is probably the stupidest thing a girl can possibly do to ruin a relationship. but she is young. and you live and learn right?

i would g into more but i dont know the situation that well but me being older now knowing what i do and my girl wanted to do that i would pretty much call her stupid for wanting to do that knowing he is an ex.

but thats just me and i dont share well with others when it comes to sharing in any meaning of the word nice honestly or other wise.
there no heart felt reason in the world for her to do that unless she really is that dense not disrespecting you or her at all but thats just idiotic on her part.

no guy would be ok with that trusting her or not. maybe they would but thats way to trusting for me and to suggest it would make you seem sneaky or some other thing.

[loverdude]

She mentioned one thing that
She will going to sleep in different room alone

[cheapshotbob]

thats good then but you and her need to talk about that because in some guys eyes if they dont know you or her they will get the wrong idea and thats how rumors get started. and you dont need that head ache. it takes a lot of trust do be able to that but you also have to understand who it will look to others.

and add that to the rumors that will spread it will make it even harder for you guys. trust me on that i have seen things get bad over less important things.

[JohnM82]

No it's not a normal situation and it is weird. But if you really trust her then fine.

[LaughLoveLive]

She's playing you, this is terrible! NOT ACCEPTABLE. Being friends and talking even is a crime! (Of course it depends and varies from couple to couple,) but sleeping over? Ridiculous!

[Navibern]

She is not respecting you or your relationship. Time to say good bye to her. Man up. Take time to find someone else after you break up with her. You will absolutely find someone.

[levantine99]

if you accept that, you are the most beta guy that ever walked the earth. or supernaturally naive.

[InquisitiveMan]

Break up with her. No it's not normal. She still has a thing for him. There is no such thing as being good friends with a ex.

[loverdude]

But she said that
She will be sleeping in another room..

[InquisitiveMan]

Why do you believe any of that? Google can exs be friends and see what you get. Man don't be a fool we have all been there. But I have never been there to the point where my girl lets me know she is going to another mans house. For no reason at all should YOUR girlfriend want to be at another mans house. Something sexual is happening. Females love saying oh he's like a brother he's my best friend I could never. Or I'll never do you like that and the whole time they are lying. I've dealt with so many women who do this type of shit to their boyfriends I can spot it when it's happening. I've been on both sides of it the boyfriend who believed her when she said she wasn't doing anything and she was and I've been the friend who she hangs around and has sex with but tells her man nothing is happening. Don't let her play you man. #Brocode

[Pizza_Princess]

'SLEEPOVER' with an Ex? What is she on about? That is not normal

[sodababe]

My god, sleepover with an ex? 'Sleepover' with an EX? Watch out cause she's gonna hurt you man

[TonyRyanAgain]

They're bumpin uglies, lmao.