Should I sleepover at my crush's house?

[sammy214]

My parents are going to NYC for my dad's marathon. I don't want to go, it's gonna be on early November. My parents brought up that I could stay over at a family friend's house. They have a son who goes to the same school, is in the same grade, and is in the same homeroom as me. Oh, btw, I like him. If I do stay, I have stay over at his house for two nights. I'll be bringing clothes (sleeping and casual-wear ( we have school uniforms)), shampoo/conditioner/soap, and other essentials. Should I stay over?

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I'm 13 btw!

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And my little sister might stay over also

[Anonymous]

As long as there's parental supervision, I think it should be fine. But just for future references, if a guy, in his own will, asks you to sleep over at his place then that means he wants to park his car in your garage.

[sammy214]

ohh i was not thinking of it like that! we're just friends. and 13. i just want to chat and just get closer to him

[Mssomerhalder]

Jealous omg. I wish I had the opportunity to stay at my crushes hour omg thats the ideal situation. Yes go stay of course!!!😭

[sammy214]

Thanks!

[zombiebabe]

if you really wanna do it.. then do it

[Unventured]

Doooo eeeettttt. He'll get to know you and you can see if he is into you or not...

But then again I highly doubt your parents are that flexible.

[sammy214]

Actually it was my mom's idea. like I said we're family friends. I mean we go to the same school, church, and know the same families.

[Unventured]

You are a very, VERY, lucky kid D: My parents are still stiff as a board about letting me sleep over at my friend's house that I've known for 3 years

[sammy214]

That's unfortunate! we've known this family ever since we moved to the state (srry not gonna say). It's been a little over 5 years now.

[Unventured]

Yeah go for it!

[Unventured]

Thanks for MHO!

[sammy214]

no problem

[sovetskii13]

If you feel comfortable staying there for two nights then go ahead. Plus, you'll get to see more of him. Spend more time with him. All good.

[manuelmanny]

well shits going down ;) make sure your protection , if you do go you proably will have sex with him and he might not be intrested afterwards ,2 thing that could happe you dont give it to him he thinks he is friend zoned

[sammy214]

OH GOD NO! I'm only thirteen!

[manuelmanny]

oh well then go for it nothing really will happen then, just have fun

[Unventured]

Hahahaha

[sammy214]

lol thanks

[Anonymous]

Why not , just dont go with expectations of you having to be are do something other than spend the night.

[sammy214]

of course! I'm honestly not thinking of the situation like that. I just like talking to him. My little sister might join us anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

if your sister stays over then it will be less awkward, and how magically it would be if you and your crush felt so comfortable with one another that you both fell in love, but the more likely thing that will happen is ne will be more nervous than you, and be shy and quiet but if you can make him feel at ease around you then there is a good chance you two will become close friends, thats considering he even comes out of his room.

[sammy214]

I hope it's not like that! I mean I've been to his room a lot and there isn't much to do in there. Plus, he athletic and doesn't like staying indoors. I don't think his mom would let him do that any way.

[sammy214]

Our family has been over to his house before. just us. we just have nice conversations that range from deep to just chatting. We sorta just ignore my sister. I've stayed over his house after school before. The rest of my family went shopping out of state since I had school, while my sister didn't.

[Opinion Owner]

Then it sounds like you two will get along just fine, were you thinking of making a move?

[sammy214]

honestly not really. maybe in high school or something but not middle school. I already know that we're going to the same school. i just want to get closer to him.

[Opinion Owner]

Then just be yourself and as long as you are comfortable with him he will be the same with you, although he will most likely be more nervous then you, wondering the same things as you

[Anonymous]

yes. this will be your chance to fuck him.

[sammy214]

nope