Search Results: too close or too distant

He’s changed, he makes no effort and I’m heart broken?

I’ve known this guy since my teens, and the past 5 years we have had an intensely close relationship. Due to a lot of factors in our life we could never be together, but we have been sexual, along with being best friends....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My affair has ended?

I’ve been having an emotional affair with a friend for 5 years, nothing physical has ever happened, though we hold hands and cuddle of the rare occasions we have met. The past year things have been messy between us, I’m t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend is a great person, the only thing I don’t like is his excessive drinking?

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years. he loves his alcohol. he drinks everyday, every. freaking. day. and the people he hangouts out with loves to drink as well. the only person who doesn’t is me. i wouldn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is she testing me and how do I pass?

There's a girl from work who for a year we've been openly flirting and kissing eachother but not much more. But one day in her car things were perfect and i think we both realised that we liked eachother. Things were a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is she interested?

So, this girl I’ve been interested in for a while now looks at me daily (majority of the time I catch her staring, sometimes its the opposite), she is nervous around me (looks down, looks away when we make eye contact,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

She lost interest through stress, how do I win her back?

Ok so i've been seeing this girl from work for a year now and about 3 months ago we decided to become more serious and date. For the last year or so we got along, became very close and open with eachother, loved...

Expressomantini

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

Her stress is causing her to hate me?

there's this girl who I work with, we've been texting for over a year now (as well as sexting and sending nudes) and have also become very close friends. We can make eachother very happy and love spending time together,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Married good friend now being distant?

hi guys sorry for the long post I just wanted to explain my situation as well as I could.. so I have a male good friend who I felt really close to who is also friends with my boyfriend, I also know he's wife but my male...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is he losing interest or am I thinking too much?

Why is it that my boyfriend's messages became really short nowadays? I say goodmorning, he says "hey", i say goodnight, he says "bye".. he also makes jokes about breaking up sometimes, i laugh at the ones he makes when he...

ashxdly

Xper 2 Age: 24

Dating

Dating Question?

So wondering what to do and think about my current situation. Dating a girl for over a month now. The first 2 dates went great. The 3rd date not so well as felt weird and maybe I came on too strong a little but she...

basebase101010

Xper 1 Age: 44

Flirting

Is she interested in me or not?

There is a girl I really like and we always got on well and felt kinda close in the past when we worked together. However on the rare occasions we are out socially as part of a group it's like we are kinda distant or shy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Difference between a girl not interested or playing hard to get/wanting you to approach her?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is this relationship doomed?

So i (23M) and this girl (22F) work together with other college students. About 9 months back myself and this girl began to text eachother and we eventually made out one night. She's a very private person and although she...

Expressomantini

Xper 5 Age: 27

Relationships

Why does my long distance boyfriend pauses his feelings on distance when usually in real life we connect naturally?

We're in long distance relationship. We're back to living together in 2023. When on distance, He's always present with me, but is different than when we are together IRL. He's more affectionate IRL, and when we go to our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I’ve just ended a 5 year emotional affair, when will it stop hurting?

Cutting a longggg story short, I’m in a 15 year marriage with a man I love, he’s not all innocent before anyone suggests I’m so wrong, which I know I am, but he has been too over the years. We have a good relationship,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

? does my crush likes me back?

So I recently changed school and been there for 1 month and there this guy who is in opposite section who became a freind of mine. He has his own circle and i know a few of his freind but they seem to be A bunch of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Should I give up on my stister who I feel doesn't even care about me?

I actually have two older stisters. Me and my oldest sister are really close and she's like my best friend but my middle stister makes no effort with us what so ever. I rarely talk about her because there isn't much to...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Ex blocked me after begging me not to?

My ex became very mean and distant at the end of our relationship, he would say he didn’t feel anything when I was sad nor did he want to touch me. I made a promise to stay even though I wasn’t happy at the beginning of...

Emilyqew

Xper 5 Age: 28

Relationships

Girls, Why'd she stop using toys with me?

My girl and I have been in a rocky, toxic relationship for over a year. We live together. We've always used toys since the beginning. I actually bought her 3 out 4 of her toys. I'm definitely not emasculated by the idea....

livin_hi_808

Xper 5 Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

What does all of this mean?

Full story: I met this guy through our siblings. His brother married my sister. During their wedding planning we became close. I drove him home after the wedding and he was asking me about my past and then stammered and...

Anonymous

(30-35)