Alcoholics, like any addiction, is that individual's first love. They surround themselves with people and places (constituencies) that either support or enable their Addiction. He seems to be an All-Nothing type person (personality). I bet the rest of his life shows really good at some things and not so good at other.-He can do all things, one at a time, but it requires much Focus. Part of your role is to keep him focused upon what's important and he will absolutely plow through his work, generate income, etc...
Until the bottom falls out nothing will change...
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Hmm... Well, if you want to encourage him, have you tried suggesting you do activities that can only be done sober? If he enjoys it, it'll not only show him that he can have fun without it, but give him more motivation to dial it back a bit.
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