Girls, Why'd she stop using toys with me?

[livin_hi_808]

My girl and I have been in a rocky, toxic relationship for over a year. We live together. We've always used toys since the beginning. I actually bought her 3 out 4 of her toys. I'm definitely not emasculated by the idea. I believe it when 98% of females all say "it's not the same" or "it can't replace the real thing". I left for 3 months to visit family for the holidays and we decided to take a break. During that time she would play with herself or break out a toy to incorporate during. Usually because I would ask her to. During this time she bought a new toy. The lush 3 without telling me about it until some random night she told me she bought a new toy and it has Bluetooth and I can control it even 3,000 miles away. Now I didn't like it but I didn't care that much because we used it together. Anyway, she paid for me to fly back to Hawaii and paid close to $700 just for a three day weekend together in a hotel room alone. So she's a grad student in her very last year. Due to graduate next May. She's been really distant, secretive, quick to fight and start shit with me by doing something she knows will piss me off. She's been avoiding sex a lot more but she also has been having vagina issues but she hasn't totally abstained from sex and she doesn't give me head at all like she used to. Anyway, the point of this question is why would she stop using and hide the toys knowing that I like them and paid for them? Try to come up with other reasons other than cheating. That's too easy.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the obvious answer is the most practical one. I’m not one to jump to conclusions but it sounds like she is cheating and when she’s not then she uses toys on her own, not with you. It’s a tale as old as time when your partner stops seeking intimacy with you and it’s because they’re getting it elsewhere. You may think it’s “too easy”, but why does it have to be hard or super intricate to make sense?