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I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?

All my life, i was a shy and a little socially anxious guy. And never had a girlfriend. For the last 2 years, i started to work in the hotels, at the front desk.

A few weeks ago, this tunusian chick came to the hotel as a customer, she was smiling at me. She was educated, smart and cute. Wanted to join me when i was eating some chips and drinking coke.

Then another day we were drinking alcohol in the sea/beach's shaking bridge together, she hugged and kissed me a little. And i kissed her too. It was like a dream night to me.

Then i started touching her in a sexual way , she smiled and was not angry but she said we are just friends and she is a Virgin and i should stop. And all of a sudden i stopped because this is an important word to me.

Anyway we have spent 8 hours together in that night. This was a first to me. I was so happy. But maybe instead of waiting for my chance from women, i should chase my luck and approach people.

I am not a bad looking guy. I can make good jokes, i can talk in a lot of topics, but for some reason, i was never great with women and as a guy, i was always unhappy.