Search Results: dont know what he wants

So here's the thing. I've told my crush I like him and he said he wants to meet me.. we've talked online yada yada.. but he goes to a university where the top 5% meet in his continent.. he is really intelligent. Im not dumb.. I have a high IQ compared to avarage im pretty fast with math and seeing patterns.. im faster than the avarage person but compared to him im a toddler. He knows he is more intelligent than me.. but I was wondering do you think it will be a deal breaker for him when we meet?

Also I dont have any high quality job. He is an engineer I'm just some caretaker..

I'll cut short in points

Been together since 7.5 years

He has always been careless, emotionally immature kind of person. I always thought he'll get better with time. Since He grew up in super protected environment.

He didn't even do bare minimum efforts and didn't treated me properly , my fault being i never complained and expressed and so he thought its okay to be like that. (And i was waiting that things come from his side itself without me asking)

I used to suffer without letting him know much, me being a hopeless romantic n sensitive person.

Now he's asking me to teach him how to treat girls so that he can do better. I feel its not my place to do. Its something his parents / friends/ himself should have taught him.

As a person he is very pure of heart, honest, and all. But he's superr dumbo and kinda avoid difficult conversations.

Tbh its kinda difficult for me and maybe I'm getting emotional since i have spent soo much time and energy for this guy.

I really wish things worked out but i dont want to lose myself in the process too.

One part of me is like.. should give another chance

Another being let it go. Things might not get better in future as well.

Another is just be friends. I help him develop as a person as a supportive friend. And if things work out or we feel we can try. Otherwise just friends.

Me and my partner have been on and off for years

There was an incident last year and I got a restraining order on him

So the police placed it on behalf of me so he cannot be near me or contact me

But me and my partner reconciled and continued our relationship secretly

However now we have a baby together - born few weeks ago

This is our first child

Before I gave birth - we had an argument 2 months ago and so I reported him to the police out of spite

And now he is in jail for 2 months

I regret it so much and I miss him

I paid a lawyer for him to try to bail him or get him less sentence..

Im paying his rent until he gets released

Since he's not allowed to call me in jail, he calls my brother

He told my brother:

- he's not angry at me

- he wants to be with me and our daughter

- he plans to marry me

- its really bad in jail and wants me to know how bad it is

But today when he called my brother, he said:

- him, me and my brother needs serious talk.. all 3 of us

- he thinks I dont realize how serious it is

Why did he say that?

Why does he want serious talk?

he's angry isn't he?

why does he want my brother there when he talks to me?

Does he want to leave me?