Why do these guys always tease and slander me?

[Anonymous]

It has been a daily occurance where these 2 guys will always tease me relentlessly and slander me saying I am a grandma because I dont remember things or I sleep before 10pm. They always find ways to try and get at me.

I have tried ignoring them and they go back to talking normally to me. Then after 5 minutes they will go back to teasing and slandering me again.

I dont know why they do this it is so painful now. I dont know if they have crushes on me or they are genuinely being mean. They invited me to play a game with them this week and they were trying to teach me how to play and what I can improve on but they still tease me saying I do poor damage on the game.

Im kind of tired of it tbh. I don't know what they really want anymore, to make themselves feel better or they have a crush on me. Lol surely no one treats a crush like that

[Izzy_3991]

Sounds like regular guy banter to me. They see you as “one of the guys”.
However, it seems like this is upsetting you. I would speak to them directly about this matter and ask them to stop it as it hurts your feelings.


All the best 🥰

[Asker]

It feels like it too! 😂 Yeah I will later kind of annoying

[MountainMetal]

When you told them that their teasing was hurtful how did they respond?

[Asker]

didn't say anything yet just ignored them. But they stopped for a moment but continued again

[MountainMetal]

Sounds like ignoring is a ineffective and painful strategy, no?

[Asker]

I have pointed out their behaviour and comments are mean too 😅