Guys, I'm afraid im too dumb for my crush?

[Anonymous]

So here's the thing. I've told my crush I like him and he said he wants to meet me.. we've talked online yada yada.. but he goes to a university where the top 5% meet in his continent.. he is really intelligent. Im not dumb.. I have a high IQ compared to avarage im pretty fast with math and seeing patterns.. im faster than the avarage person but compared to him im a toddler. He knows he is more intelligent than me.. but I was wondering do you think it will be a deal breaker for him when we meet?

Also I dont have any high quality job. He is an engineer I'm just some caretaker..

Yes It will be a deal breaker for him. He will Want an equal

No he will be fine with it

Other... write below!

[Berethor]

Guys usually care about a girl's looks, not her intelligence, so no need to worry about that.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Research

[Asker]

Thank you! Thats helps!

[Berethor]

I am glad to help, also most geniuses being male is actually an natural gender trait.

qz.com/.../men-are-both-dumber-and-smarter-than-women

[Asker]

Alright well this guy is not just smart he is a genius

[MementoMori777]

guys aren't normally looking into that

[Asker]

Really?

You think he won't mind? What do men look for?

[MementoMori777]

not into education, unless he's that type of guy that cares about her education which normally they dont

[Asker]

Okay thats good. What about job field?

[MementoMori777]

same thing, i think normally guys have the mentality if looking after the woman so none of it is important to them

[Asker]

Okay thats good

[Asker]

Thats you

[MementoMori777]

okay

[asphaltrhymes]

Hmm, I know I couldn date a woman who was "too dumb" than me but I also wouldn't want a woman "too smart" either. Either I'd find would bug me at some point. Lol.
So I'll say a deal-breaker if it's my opinion lol

[asphaltrhymes]

*couldn't

[Asker]

Oh no😖😖

[asphaltrhymes]

But your situation, who knows. Lady, just make the relationship of it what you will, we all here at GAG are just strangers replying to a question with no expertise, so you know, that's why therapists and couples counselling exists lol. Anyways, best wishes to you or you both 👍

[Asker]

Well i believe therapy is a scam but thank you. I guess you're right

[asphaltrhymes]

All the best, if you ever need professionals, seek professionals, just speaking politely and properly. Anyways I've never been in a relationship myself and while sure it can be lonely and sometimes I have moments of regret that at almost 30 I still haven't been in not even one relationship, given my baggage which i won't go into, I still am cheerful I enjoy my time with friends and family and work, rather than spending years on a relationship and then it just was all a waste lol if they ask for a divorce or a split, merrily speaking only about myself about myself like all of us here on GAG. Lol, an ego we all have, you see, anyways try to have a good day and peace 😌

[Asker]

Thats so sad. Why haven't you dated anyone?

[asphaltrhymes]

Lots of reasons, I'm okay with it... good day 😊👍🏻

[Asker]

Alright. Best of luck!

Good day to you too!