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I have a college crush. He is very outgoing and extroverted. He is the CR. I initiated convo with him regarding an assignment submission. And we talk a lot over text. I ask him to help me with studies, to teach me some sums and he always does that. We have also called each other and solved sums together. He is a genuinely helpful guy. He talks with every girl and makes fun of them. He is a bit flirty. He will talk to my friends in front of me but won't talk to me. He never makes fun of me and gets shy and nervous whenever I try to talk. I'm an introvert myself.

As exams are coming up he said we can't solve sums on call if I have any problem he will teach me in college. So the other day he came and asked me so bluntly that if I need any help. I said yes and he came, sat beside me and was teaching me that. And it was awkward, he was kinda reserved. Then his friends started teasing him saying 'what's going on between you two' he was just smiling.

I also punch him some times playfully and he just smiles.

He speaks with everyone nicely but with me he acts different. He teases every girl but not me.

All of a sudden whenever we bump into each other he has started smiling and says hi. He also blushes. Today also he looked at me and smiled. He came towards me as if he was trying to playfully punch me then he gave a fist bump 😂

I can't understand if he is an outgoing guy why doesn't he talk to me in college like he does with others? Why is he so serious with me? Why does he talk to formally? Does he not like me? But when I call him he talks very nicely.

A few years ago, a high school friend created a dating profile for me on a website since she wanted to see me with a boyfriend (i know, weird). Anyway, I used the profile and started chatting it up with a few men, some I even know today. One guy, in particular, liked me a lot, even though I wasn't too keen on him at first. I entertained him since I was bored, but I eventually developed feelings for him. I did break it off with him because he lived 3 hours away from me, gave off very aggressive vibes, and I started to like someone closer by. Over time, he was on my mind, and we did text each other occasionally, but it was very short convos. He even wrote many poems about how heartbroken he was that I ended that online long-distance thing with him too.

Fast forward to recently, he told me he was joining the military and wanted to pursue me again. I was interested and was thinking about him frequently while he was at boot camp. Right after he came back, we texted like usual, and everything was fine until he wanted to make a last-minute trip to see me before leaving the country. I had to decline and that changed the dynamic of the relationship a little bit. A few weeks later, he informed me that he had gotten a girl pregnant. I immediately cut contact with him since he betrayed me somewhat. Now, he's texting me frequently and calling, claiming that he loves me still and cannot die without giving "us" a chance. He knew what he did was wrong and apologized for his mistakes to the point he doesn't think about anything sexual anymore as often as he once did. Do you think it is worth it to pursue a relationship with him with all of this information or should i let him be? I don't want to waste time in a toxic relationship.