There's this guy, we met years ago but really started talking more around two months ago.
He's sweet, a gentleman, funny, nothing wrong with him. But I'm not sure I like him the way he likes me, at least not yet, and I don't think I really want this rn.
We weren't in a romantic plan or nothing, I didn't even find him attractive back then. I was going through something difficult in my life, and one day I asked him to go out just for fun, as classmates, and we had fun. He kissed me on the cheek that day, and I didn't know how to react, so I said nothing, we were drinking so I thought maybe he was just drunk.
Anyway, I don't even know how we got to the point we are now, like, it's really a whole kinda blank and confusing memory, this time passed incredibly fast and I'm confused af. One day we just started going out, talking more, etc, and now I'm like: wtf is all this?
It's my fault too because I accepted him being sweet to me, his kisses/hugs, sitting on his lap, holding hands and stuff like that, I got into the romantic plan too being sweet to him. But I was wrong, it went too fast.
I know I'm starting to like him, but I just don't feel it's the right time. He gave me a gift some days ago, he's being special, and I don't want to hurt him and maybe make him feel used, or I don't know. This could work someday, just not now. What should I do?