Ex is in a rebound but is saying things to get under my skin?

[Anonymous]

So he says he's moved on and started talking to this girl at work and apparently they hung out last night. This bitch text me from his phone and he let her talking about her man. That she's barely known that long at that.

Yet just the other day he literally called me talking about wanting to hang out and Shit. (that was 2 days ago). I told him about this guy I was talking to and I guess he got mad and blocked me. Im assuming that's when he decided to take the girl serious.

Obviously he's trying to get a reaction out of me right? Why tf would someone do all this if they supposedly moved on?

To be honest I don't want any parts. It just pissed me off that I found out he let some dirty bitvh text me from his phone and got mad because I was talking about another guy even though we've been broken up for weeks now.

[Anonymous]

Honestly if I were you I’d block them both through every outlet he can reach you through, move on and never entertain a word he says ever again. You have the right to be pissed but if I were you I’d just feel bad and wish the girl some peace. I know that’s showing her too much grace but look at her situation. She probably really likes this guy, and yet his ex is such a factor to him that she felt the need to text you just to claim him. If that’s not threatened and miserable I don't know what is. She may feel like she's gotten some prize, but I can guarantee that whatever broke you and him up will find her eventually, she’s not exempt. Your ex sounds like a toxic, fussy man child, and there’s nothing attractive about that.

[Asker]

exactly, insecure, gullible plus more. He must be feeding her lies too

[Asker]

Thank you so much for not making it seem like im just the crazy ex or delusional or overthinking things. You're right about losing contact with him, even though he is blocked and her feeling threatened and miserable but literally text me asking if I was miserable, lol. From the sound of it, he really only started talking to her because he realized I moved on and was talking to someone and then started that

[Opinion Owner]

No problem! I went through something similar so I get it lol. What she’s doing by calling you miserable is just projecting, because I have a hard time believing he’s being a good boyfriend to her and that really has to suck. The more you think about it, the more pitiful her situation is. I think she’s afraid of him leaving her and trying to go for you again, so she wants to make herself feel better by reaching out to you just to say hateful shit. What she doesn’t realize though is that being insecure to that extent is super unhealthy.

[Summeroflove]

HAHA! This is funny. Tell him. That if he doesn’t stop you’re gonna block him and that he is now your ex and you aren’t obligated to put up with his shit anymore.

Because you aren’t. You’re not his girlfriend. You don’t have to take shit from him anymore. He needs to move on. If he found someone else. Then…

Some exs depending on how things ended. Can be cool and you can still keep in contact.

Yeah. Sometimes in situations like divorce or if kids are involved. It’s a bit different.

But you don’t have to take shit from him anymore. Probably why you broke up with him anyways.

[Guy13]

It seems like you need to accept feelings and let go of your resentment. There's a saying about resenting someone and it goes like,"resentment is like drinking a poison by yourself and then waiting for the other person to die"...

What is your true hope here? I think you still want him as you have not implemented No Contact rule and you get all worked up in a frenzy. No blocking as he can freely contact you... Silence and no response... etc.

[In_Trance]

stop paying attention to your ex