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I dated the rebounding man, things got serious quickly and now he’s broke up with me because he still thinks about ex mother of child but wants me?

Hi guys, please help me understand him.

We were together 4 months. We met 2 months after his split with ex.
We have a great connection, he really pursued me and asked me to move in with him. We got our apartment but shortly after he cried daily because he missed his old family unit. He broke up with me saying he needed to try one more time to fix his family even though the ex wasn’t interested. I was hurt but told him to go figure it out. He left our apartment to stay with a friend. One day after leaving, he begged me to give him some time to figure his head out. He yo-yo’d with me for a couple days because he was drunk, coming back to the apartment, talking it out and sleeping with me.

I went no contact for 2 days after this and he turned up at our apartment. We discussed me moving out and him taking on the apartment. He kept apologising saying he has left me because he can’t keep treating me like second best. He can’t be with me while he’s thinking about his old family unit. He said his ex will never take him back but he needs to get over her now before he can’t ever see me again. He said in a few weeks/months he might be healed and ready to take it slow with me again. If I’m single and want to. He told me to make him work to win me back.

I remained calm and didn’t show any emotion. I have not begged him, I’ve told him it’s fine. Im now in our apartment, waiting for him to suddenly change his mind and come back to me, I’m so upset. I want him back to badly. What should I do?
I dated the rebounding man, things got serious quickly and now he’s broke up with me because he still thinks about ex mother of child but wants me?
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