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For many years, I was seeking a woman that didn't have a romantic past before me. I stewed in mental and emotional anguish, and I even got into trouble out of desperation along the way.

Then one day, I pursued my faith with Jesus and I ended up finding a woman that had never had a boyfriend or even kissed a boy before me! It was miraculous how that lined up, and now we are engaged to be married!

That huge burden lifted off my shoulders enlightened me to pursue many good deeds. I have also matured more and on my way to becoming the man I need to be.

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Most women complain about men when it comes down to making love. But what if you find a man that is like a women, like me?

1. I make love for meaning for a deeper connection.
They don’t need a reason, just the opportunity. No emotions, no intentions, no plans.
But guys like me give their love in bed with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or developing something more and deeper.

2. For me, making love is a door to more. It's not the end goal.

3. Guys like me still believe in love when most men today are running games.

4. Guys like me feel love and passion. When most guys just get a release. But to for me to make love our hearts, minds, and sole needs to connect before we say yes. Because it is not S--x to guys like me, it's making love.

7. Guys like me use making love as a way to bond. Other guys use it to sample. After making love guys like me, assume something deep just happened between ud and feel more connected to you. Because making love is a special bond between us for only us. Guys like myself use it to connect with you as one, and show our love for you. It is not about our pleasure it's about yours. It is love that ties us together and forms a deep and powerful boond. And is looked at as special, it is only for you not anyone else.

Here is the question.. if you fould a guy like me. Will it turn you off because I am too emotional, sensitive, and deep in bed and not masculine and manly?

This article argued that men’s lack of emotional support systems leads to increased burdens on women in relationships—coining the term “mankeeping” to describe the emotional labor women perform in supporting their male partners - The Hidden Costs of Men's Social Isolation: When men suffer social isolation, women may pay the price, too - www.scientificamerican.com/.../


I chose Option 2 – Men’s struggles shouldn’t be framed through the lens of how they affect women. That’s not empathy—that’s ego wrapped in victimhood.
This article tries to sound supportive of men but ultimately centers women as the ones who suffer because of men’s loneliness, as if men being emotionally isolated is a burden on them. Imagine framing women’s depression or trauma by saying, “Well, men suffer when women are emotionally distant.” It would be considered sexist and dismissive—and rightly so.
Emotional labor exists in both directions. If a woman is exhausted from carrying the emotional weight in a relationship, that’s a valid issue. But that doesn’t mean men’s pain is hers to fix—or that his isolation is somehow her responsibility. That kind of framing only deepens the gender divide and discourages men from seeking help.
If we actually want to support men, we need to talk to them, not about how their pain makes things harder for everyone else.
- Eva ❤️