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I have an older brother (23) and I know my bestie from school always crushed on him, but I made it clear that he is not an option and he has a girlfriend. I ended up finding out that she had been skipping class and they had been screwing in my bedroom while I was at school for like two weeks before I caught them came home and caught them. I was so angry I never talked to her since (like almost a bit over a year now). I'm angry that my brother would even do it behind his gfs back, but way more angry and disgusted that my bff chose to tease and lure him into all this. I don't even think she's actually sorry for doing it and says it's not my place to have an opinion because it's controlling. I don't even know anymore.

I just read her update on reddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/yozb12/my_husband_40_m_and_i_39_f_are_working_things_out/

- She cheats in 2002 with the guy's friend. She was 19 at the time. They were boyfriend and girlfriend.

- The guy forgives, she betters herself, hever cheated since, they get married later on and have 3 kids.

- 20 years later, this time the husband cheats with his co-worker but for different reasons, unrelated to her old cheating.

- The guy falls in love with his co-worker, he exchanges texts about traveling to Paris with her and leaving his kids, spends money on his affair (even steals and uses some of his wife's money) and takes his wife's meals and desserts to feed the woman

- Everything backfired in the end; his AP partner was using him for money. They're currently working things out. She's sounds upset on her post though.