Search Results: lying friend

Is it possible to get a girlfriend without asking anybody out?

I'm 31m and I guess my whole life i've been afraid of rejection and mostly keep to myself or whatever. introversion. Ever since I was told to "stop looking" by someone back in 2019, i've been doing things I like,...

DMC93

Xper 4 Age: 33

Was this guy genuinely attracted to me or just looking for a hole?

I'm 19 and haven't had much experience with guys. I'm scared of men not because I think you're all bad but it's a personal fear I have. I went to a bar with friends and some guys from college showed up. One of them, Liam,...

juju90

Xper 1 Age: 21

Break Up & Divorce

Would I ever get him back?

We broke up 2 weeks ago and on no contact terms. We had our ups and downs, but the downs weren't harmless, at least to me i guess. Like he was so nonchalant and laid back type of a guy and i just needed attention a lot....

Anonymous

(25-29)

My date went horribly last night. Why does dating nowadays suck?

Okay so last night I met up at the restaurant with a guy that I met on the dating app. He was very shocked that I’m actually 6’4”. He’s 6’6 and he shook my hand and looked at me up and down. All he did was asked about my...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why is my best friend being so jealous that I have a date tomorrow night?

So a guy messaged me on the dating site Monday and he lives in the same area as I do so I decided to give him a chance. We talked for a while of course after work. He just send me his number to text him just now but I’m...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Relationships

Why would married guy say this, is he a cheating liar?

I was talking to a friend, a guy I met at college a few years ago. I had a bit of a thing for him but the timing was always off and we’re just friends. We were having a friendly catch up recently and I know he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I need some outsiders view. Whats your perspective?

My ex/ baby daddy says things like..." I love you, I miss you, you're beautiful, do you want to be with me?, I don't want any other woman but you, i won't hurt you, it won't be like last time." I want to believe him but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Best friend’s boyfriend confessed to me. I do like him but don’t want to ruin friendships. What should I do?

I’ve know my best friend (bsf) for almost 12 years and we’ve been inseparable. We call each other platonic wives. She started dating B last year and he moved in her house 4 months dating. I was a bit worried for her...

Liillo

Xper 2 Age: 25

My boyfriend found my journal about him from 9 years ago?

When I was 17 I met my boyfriend (K). He worked at a grocery store near me and I thought he was so cute. My friend (P) and I would go into the store and I’d take note of days and times he was there. I had P talk to him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does this mean about these strippers?

I’m usually not in stripclubs im usually in regular nightclubs but my uncle likes to go and I’ve gone a number of 3 times so far to celebrate his birthday or the birthday of his friends and I’ve had 3 strippers give me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if guy friend is suddenly sending sexual memes?

i have a guy friend who recently started sending me reels. it started with 1-2 reels a day and went to 10-12 reels a day, all within a week. suddenly he has started sending me sexual memes/reels as well. some of them i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do when my boyfriend refuses to stop using cringe nicknames for me because he thinks I secretly like it?

I've made a post about this before lol, where I mentioned that my boyfriend has the nicknames BUBU and DUDU for me and him respectively. Well now that's gotten worse and bubu is now replaced by BUBUGIRL. I'm constantly...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do girls mess with boys if they don’t want to be mess with back by them?

Some girls would get boys in trouble by lying on them, and don’t play fair with them. But, if a boy mess with them. She gets her friends on him, etc. That is not right, or fair.

LinkxPeach

Yoda Age: 33

Relationships

My boyfriend has been lying to me but I don't know what to do. Any advice?

Couple months ago my boyfriend quit his job and wanted to do tattooing from our home full time. He's only had the 4 same clients the past two months and I've been paying all the rent ($1200/month), I paid $3000 for a car...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is she lying to me?

so me and this girl have been in a situationship for a year. She says she doesn’t want a relationship but she’s inlove with me supposedly. Anyways yesterday she was wearing all my rings I got her and then I saw an...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are men so weak?

there is a sterotype that men are stronger than women but i am stronger than all my male friends and i dont workout. Also before people say i'm lying I've beaten them in armwrestling and i can carry them easily whereas...

jessicapeters7x

Xper 1 Age: 25

there is a sterotype that men are stronger than women but i am stronger than all my male friends and i dont workout. Also before people say i'm lying I've beaten them in armwrestling

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Would you remain friends with someone who tried to kiss you after saying they wanted friendship only?

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go. I regularly have physical therapy for chronic dizziness. Therapists change...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go. I regularly have physical therapy for

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go.

I regularly have physical therapy for chronic dizziness. Therapists change every few months. This last one I clicked with immediately. He gives me exercises and answers questions. There is no physical contact.

After my sessions ended, seeing as we get on pretty well & with him being new in the area I invited him out platonically— just me showing him around.

I made it clear I am not interested in dating. He said he travels so he’s not about dating atm, we understand each other. No problems.

Fourth time we met up mind you this was over three months period of time- we weren’t meeting up constantly. It was very late we were listening to street music playing their last song, he moves in (slowly enough for me to stop him - I give him props for that) I stopped him. I asked him ‘you said you wanted to be friends. We both agreed?’ He said he did. He does. He was just feeling very friendly. 👀 👀

I knew he was joking so I laughed but then my mind went back to the issue which was:

1. I do not want to get involved.

2 I thought he didn’t want to get involved.

3 he basically lied to me.

And here’s the thing. He answered me honestly but I now doubt I can trust him.

he said he kind of assumed I was just saying I didn’t want more than friends bc everyone says that (((do they?)) and we get on well so he thought he’d just wait and see.

it doesn’t bother me he turned out to be a bit interested or that he tried to kiss me or even him lying bc he didn’t have an obligation to tell he if he was interested in anything - as long as he accepted I wasn’t.

It is the fact he assumed I was lying and I’m quite tired of people thinking I am playing a game when I’m direct. Even nice people.

He didn’t trust me & I don't know if I can trust him. BUT he did come clean. He could have played it off as a misunderstanding.

What would you do?

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