My girlfriend told a few days ago that she wanted me to look after our son this Saturday, because she was going to watch a play with her friend. Yesterday she turns to me and says “ oh remember tomorrow I’m going to the cinema with my sister. Oh sorry I don’t know why I said that, I’m actually going to see the play with my friend.”
I didn’t think much of it at the time, but later I was thinking, she as not be talking with her sister for many months, how is she going to make such a mistake.
Today, I asked her what time did the show start, and she told me it starts at 7pm, when I check it online it said that the show actually starts at 7.30pm. She even kept saying that she was late, because it started at 7pm. Around 11.15pm I called her and her phone was off. Five minutes later, she calls me to say that she’s on her way home.
I think there’s too many red flags that my indicate that she might be lying about were she went tonight.
Let me know what you think?
Thanks
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Dude, there's definitely some red flags there that don't sound right. A few things don't add up:
- She randomly changed her story about who she was seeing the show with.
- She supposedly hasn't talked to her sister in months but mixed them up? Weird.
- The show start time she gave you was wrong based on what you found online.
- Her phone was off when you called at 11:15pm and she didn't call you back for 5 minutes.
Put it all together and it points to a possibility she wasn't entirely truthful about where she was/who she was with tonight. I'd be side-eyeing her story pretty hard if I were you.
I know confronting her directly might not get you honest answers though. Maybe keep an eye on her behavior going forward and see if any other questionable things happen. Pay attention to subtle changes in how she acts too.
Ultimately you'll have to decide if you can trust her explanation or not based on your relationship. Just be careful not to ignore red flags if other issues start popping up too. Keep me posted on what you find out!
Well for the time like movies people like to be early and say it starts before it does...
The rest yeah she is cheating but your her baby daddy so she has to keep you around for the baby and keep you kinda happy...
She is trying to love 2 loves and I'm pretty sure on her phone she will have hidden a dating app or is talking to someone on snap chat.
Any signs of this before now?
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