Search Results: sick of being the friend

How do face seeing my ex after 6 years?

a lot has changed in the 6 years since I last saw my ex. I'm married now and my son has just turned one. I love my husband so much he's the love of life and we have a beautiful life together and I couldn't be more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why does my girlfriend think she is not worthy of being loved?

I recently got into a relationship with this girl. We were friends for over 2 years and then in January this year we started going out. Before this, she was in an abusive situationship where the dude was already dating...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Are we having an emotional affair?

A close guy friend has been codependent for about five months now with me. He keeps on wanting to know how i am and finds other ways to contact me if I deactivate my fb. Sometimes if I reactivate, he welcomes me back on...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

7 Reasons Why Men Will Always Ask You For Sex.

(Its a bit long but Educative,take you time to read) I want to change some ladies mindset today. (sorry I will be very raw with these). You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that...

Awantika03

Yoda Age: 22

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Guy's Behavior

Should I embarrass myself again to show I care?

I used to be friends with this guy. We liked each other and saw each other for awhile mostly with friends around but sometimes without our friends there. We stopped talking and became distant. Recently we matched with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Embarrass myself for caring?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girls, Am I doing The Right Thing?

Recently in about 2 months ago me and a friend started flirting in a group chat we're in together and I decided to take in a step further and meet in person. I known her about 5 months. I didn't want to put too much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What does it mean when a guy adjusts his personality because of you?

My guy friend actually is the opposite version of me and he's sensitive and caring, somewhat feminine and im the opposite with more masculine features and the tendency to be blunt. I find i tend to naturally tone down...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Why do some men only like bad girls?

I work with the guy in a bar and I get on really well with him. I've always had a massive crush on him and I thought he liked me back. He's always flirting with me and giving me little cute nicknames. He's a little older...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

My sister is evil?

I try to forgive my older sister but I can’t. I’m 26 & my sister is 28, ever since we were young she would call me ugly & fat. At one point I lost a lot of weight & started dating but she would go after my ex’s, my first...

khb031498

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

How does he feel about me?

My crush and I are classmates at university. He's very shy and only talks to guys but I'm the only girl he greets. However, our conversations are small and simple. Lately I've started ignoring him on purpose but he still...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend

Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Relationships

Am I engaged in an emotional affair with my guy friend and didn't realize it?

Last year, my guy friend confided he feared for his life and it turned out he had an abusive relationship to which I tried to save him and began to fight so that he will in turn fight. Back then, i did not know he was in...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Guy responded late to my messages and I iced him out. Did I do the right thing?

So, this guy friend and I go long way back but ever since I got sick, he had been messaging me every 3 days to check on me since January. So thats been 4 months of being consistent. He had helped me in my sickness and...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Guilty of being the taker in a situationship. Guy friend enables me?

Guy friend is always giving, taking care of me and when i made attempts to take care of him or help him, he rarely likes it. He prefers to be the one to take care of me. I told him i'm getting better because i got sick...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Dating

Matched with friends and seems they figured it out so how to respond?

I think I’m being played and I’m super annoyed and want to stand up for myself. Was talking to this guy online for a week. Seemed to be really hitting it off. Then he started fading me out. I matched with another guy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Can a breakup ruin you for good? How one can cope with that kind of pain?

A little context. It's been almost 6 months since I broke up with my boyfriend! We've been together for a little over a year, and I was totally head over heels with him. He was funny, attentive, always keeping me on my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What's wrong with him?

My brother (19) says he's depressed, he cuts himself sometimes (superficial cuts) My parents and I are supportive, they paid for his therapy sessions, we are a close family, everything at home is calm, we are not lacking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Please help me understand him?

So I have been seeing this guy for 4 months we met on Snapchat and have been talking consistently and even ended up being number 1 on both each-others friends list we finally met in person and everything seemed to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Is it okay to cut my losses and move on in this case?

I have a really rude friend, who takes me for granted and speaks to me however she wants. I’ve been insulted by her twice within a few months. Although it’s true that she’s a full time carer to her mum, I’m getting sick...

Anonymous

(36-45)