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Search Results: what attracts you
What Nationality Are You, And What Nationality of the Opposite Sex Are You Most Attracted To?
I am white American (Dutch and Heinz 57). I'm mostly attracted to white Americans, Italian American, and Greek American guys.
Women, how can unattractive or short men build confidence and self-worth?
a lot of people say that confidence is one of the most attractive traits for women that a man can have, but how is a man supposed to feel good about himself if he is told by society or by women that he is unattractive or...
Anonymous
(36-45) Another woman told me that she couldn’t date a man who serves her like the pool boy, server ect.. what if he has a plan though?
She was repulsed by the idea of me being attracted to a man who has a different job… but if he has a plan, if he’s in school or if he lets you know he’s more than his current job… or is it bad to date a work in progress...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Did I just get played?
I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I attract men my own age when I look much younger than 38?
I don’t look my age and guys in their twenties hit on me a fair bit, rather than men my own age. I’m turning 38 this year and I want more older men to notice me. Not those who are much younger (more than 5 years younger)....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why am I more attracted to naughty guys than polite, nice guys?
I’m always into naughty boys growing up. They are more fun, adventurous, and risk taker. I grew up with my church youth, so I have known plenty of polite boys. Nothing is wrong with them, but I prefer a little naughtiness...
TheLovelyWoman
Xper 6 Age: 42 Does true attraction disappear once you find out someone is taken?
There was a guy I used to think was a gorgeous 10 out of 10, then I learned he was taken, and now he looks like an ugly 1 out of 10 to me. I believe a normal person is wired to lose attraction to people they have no...
Do people actually chase you more when you stop being so nice?
I have this sensitive and sweet side of mine and I do attract people easily but I feel like things don’t deepen much when I am showing that side. On the other hand, I have kind of feisty and blunt and detached and...
How can I shoot my shot with this guy without making it awkward?
There’s a man in my city that I have on social media. We held a few convos over IG over the last year. I’m a direct person so I want to say let’s hangout or something but as a woman, being that direct can throw a man off....
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys actually care more about personality than appearance?
When I was the prettiest I had ever been, I would get approached once every 4 years. When I was the ugliest I had ever been, I would get approached 5 times a month, because I was more confident and intelligent when I got...
Is dating a younger guy in my late 20s worth the risk?
Would you date a younger guy? Any experiences with dating a man 4-6 years younger than you in your 20s under CERTAIN CONDITIONS. I am absolutely NOT attracted to younger men and I turn down men 2 years younger than me…...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is women’s sexual attraction really more negotiable than men’s?
The other day I posted something and some opinions expressed that women’s sexuality is more negotiable as she can grow sexual of a man overtime, and that’s why men can be more persistent, while men’s sexuality is more...
How can I reconnect and attract my ex-boyfriend after 20 years apart?
How do I attract an ex boyfriend with whom broke up over 20 years ago? I hurt him deeply and haven't Seen him in at least 15 years. I always thought “I’ll fix it” but never did. I just moved back home after my dad’s...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can short or average guys attract women and find real love?
Many women seem to be hard on men, especially if they aren't Chads, so what can such men do to attract such women?
Anonymous
(36-45) Anonymous
(30-35) Is my crush on my friend intuition or am I just overthinking it (wlw)?
so for the past 4 months I've been having a crush on my friend and ever since then i have been feeling some sort of energy pull towards her like if im immediately attracted to her and i see her face everywhere i go and...
Anonymous
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