How can I shoot my shot with this guy without making it awkward?

[Anonymous]

There’s a man in my city that I have on social media. We held a few convos over IG over the last year. I’m a direct person so I want to say let’s hangout or something but as a woman, being that direct can throw a man off. I don't know what to do to make him feel comfortable. I know he’s attracted to me because he Said it. I think he lives with his baby mama which idc about. Idc if they’re together be she slept with my ex boyfriend when we were together so how do I show my interest toward him and make him feel comfortable coming towards me? Save the judgement

[SueShe]

"Shooting your shot" will obviously come as awkward, needy and desperate. Is that what you are? Is that what you want? Is the fornication the only thing that really matters?

What will happen once you got into his pants and he reciprocated? You will just be yet another body count to him like he is yet another one for you.

Social media hookups are actually only something to get rid of the excess of sexual hormones and are superficial and never long lasting.

Since you are in just for the copulation, why don't you be direct as you state you are. Simply say what you want for him and the problem is solved. No need to beat around the bush since both want the same from each other. Get it over with and move to the next one.

[Nikki1989]

No judgement here — you know your situation better than anyone on here can possibly know. It depends on the man, but generally directness doesn't scare off someone who's actually interested.

[AviatorTom]

Why worry about being awkward? We guys love awkward. It indicates an independent woman who isn't afraid to take chances. What could be better?

[spartan55]

The only man it will throw off is the one you wouldn't be interested in.

[spartan55]

Very classy situation you are in by the way.

[queenofcardio]

You can keep messaging and casually slip in hanging out together

[Hunter-40m]

Be direct and talk to hım and be ready to face the results its better than thinking of possibilities non stop

[Zionne]

don't make it hard for yourself... let the momentum rise on its pace

[Anonymous]

You could offer to have a 3-some with his baby mama. Ain't nothing weird about that. Sharing is caring.😆

[Anonymous]

Message him and ask him if he wants to fuck.

[Honeyateleven]

Baby mama? He's with you and his baby mama? And you're ok with that?

[Pterodon]

That wouldn’t throw me off

[Anonymous]

come to him boldly and say what u need to say

[In_Trance]

This is a gong show