Why am I more attracted to naughty guys than polite, nice guys?

[TheLovelyWoman]

I’m always into naughty boys growing up. They are more fun, adventurous, and risk taker. I grew up with my church youth, so I have known plenty of polite boys. Nothing is wrong with them, but I prefer a little naughtiness and heat to spice things up. Polite boys wanted to wait until they are married, but naughty boys dine right in. Naughty boys got the meal and polite boys got the leftovers. My husband is a polite boy.

[Zack-Bann]

You and everyone else


The thing about “naughtiness” is that it’s a social construct.


Our animalistic instincts are to be naughty


And attraction is instinctive, not a rational decision


The rational decision would be to recognize when someone is attractive but also not worth the pain


I say that but even I tend to be drawn to problematic women and I can’t help myself about it


The good news it: it’s perfectly normal.
So you shouldn’t question your own decision too much

[Tomislav7]

Polite boys dont sexually excite you. You like most women desire experiences, and the only men capable of fulfilling your natural desires are the masculine bad boys. Us "polite" guys are really just cowards and shady - not clear with intent. Our responsibility is be the worker ants that labor to give you people the lives you deserve

[TheLovelyWoman]

When my husband and I were still dating, I wanted to have sex many times, but he wanted to wait until after we get married. So I had sex with other boys while he waited.

[Tomislav7]

What a sad state of affairs. Poor guy. Why settle for someone that you dont respect?

[TheLovelyWoman]

It is not that I didn’t respect him. He wanted to wait so he waited. I wanted to have sex so I had sex.

[Tomislav7]

Yeah but you claim to love this man yet you dishonor him by sleeping around. Please tell me he wasn't approving of this 😭

[TheLovelyWoman]

He did not. He thought I waited for him.

[TheLovelyWoman]

I told him what I wanted, but he wanted to wait. It would be silly of him to think I that I will wait for him.

[Tomislav7]

Yeah. Well, hopefully it works out

[TheLovelyWoman]

Naw I’m on the verge of calling it quite.

[Tomislav7]

Ok well Im here if you need any pathetic polite dick 😂

[MissSunshine2]

You answered your own question. They’re more fun to be around and better looking, often better in bed.

[CriminallyInsane]

Because those are the guys who don't care that you're cheating on your husband with them

[Summeroflove]

Okay. Maybe your brain isn’t wired correctly

[Lliam]

You said it yourself. They are fun, adventurous, bold and exciting. Probably more athletic, too. Women live vicariously through guys like that. And those guys are probably more sexually exciting and fulfilling.

Polite, nice guys are timid and often inhibited.

[Dnice1]

Personally I like the best of both worlds. I love me a sweet kind caring nice guy. However I find it a huge bonus if he's naughty especially if we're talking about in bed kind of naughty. 😉😊

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Because the men naughty in bed gives a rush feeling to women

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman you married the nice guy, though, didn't you. The naughty guy (s) may get you killed or injured by doing something stupid and dangerous.

[Anonymous]

Why would you marry him if you felt that way?

I think you’re a male troll who is trying (badly) to satirize the way you think women feel, but I’m still curious to hear your answer.

[TheLovelyWoman]

Naughty boys make a good sex partner and polite boys make a good husband.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for answering

I meant every word of what I said, but I feel like you’re a good person underneath whatever’s motivating you to do this and I’m sorry I was mean to you.

[LC75LC71]

Because they get the pussy. Girls want to go on an adventure and try to fix the guy as a project. It hardly ends well but the ride is sure fun!

[msc545]

I think it's because you want to fuck as many guys as you possibly can. This is of course regardless of your marital status.

[Jennz6]

@msc545
💃💦💧

[Hunter-40m]

Actually its the reason of your preferences and you explained fully in your description

[karlaatsd]

Lots of girls are I think because it is exciting but it is short lived. I saw it with my aunt growing up.

[whosnumber_1]

Honestly, you are living in delusionville. Do you have kids with your husband?

[dudeinohio]

A lot of women are. Then they wonder how it came to be that they are getting abused.

[In_Trance]

Unresolved Daddy issues, unbalanced hormones and a dopamine deficiency

[Anonymous]

They probably have bigger dongs and ball sacks

[Jennz6]

I bet you’re submissive too like me

[Anonymous]

More fun not boring never know what the main
Experiences will be

[LiamJHayden]

You probably find the polite guys boring.

[TheLovelyWoman]

They are boring.

[Still-alive]

This post reeks of manosohere incel bs…

[Jeff51]

Cause you cheat on your husband

[robocop666]

then date them and suffer