First of all before someone says I like there’s types of guys because they’re fun hookups I’m not having sex with them. I tend to find good, social, friendly men boring (not as people just dating wise.) I always fall for morally questionable, complicated, generally rude, introvert guys because I love having to slowly break my way into someones heart and becoming really special to them. I don’t want to change him into a good person i just want the one of the few he genuinely likes and doesn't just tolerate. I’m just so attracted and fascinated to difficult types because they’re so interesting to talk to when you can get them talking. I reasonably should want a upstanding friendly kind to everyone type man but it always leaves me feeling like I’ll make one wrong move and hurt his feeling cause he can’t take a joking jab or he won’t love me as much because he generally likes most people. How do I stop being attracted to textbook not great men?
You’re one of the reasons why I don’t go for girls my age anymore, and appreciate older women now, because they like guys who don’t do stupid sh$t. I’ve always been caring, and it’s fine if you feel this way. It’s just who you are.
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Thanks dude.. You just explained to me why I have so many fan girls as I come off as mysterious and conceited all the time ( I'm a loner.. I don't give people free attention )...
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What you just described as men you're attracted to doesn't sound like "bad men" to me.
Why is this a problem exactly?
You really can't until you're willing to change your toxic behavior.
Don't bother. Hopefully the exciting guy works out for you at some point.
You're a woman, it's impossible
Happiness is boring.🤷🏼♂️
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