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Search Results: approaching a guy or girl
Girls, How will you let a guy know you are interested in him and hoping he approaches you when in a public place like a bar/pub, coffee shop, , etc?
Assuming you are old school and still prefer the guy to approach you first, how would you signal him letting him know he will get a positive response from you if he approaches you like a gentleman
SpaceGalaxy
Guru Age: 29 If you get the vibe a guy likes you, why does he never approach?
I get the vibe that a guy really likes me but he doesn’t approach. He seems confident with others, but a bit quiet or doesn’t know what to say with me. He locks eyes with me a lot and stares from a distance, but why...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I save myself from a night of humiliation?
Beauty is in eye of the beholder. But most people, probably 85% would classify me as unattractive or average looking while the minority 15% will see me as ridiculously attractive. I don't go out often but when I do, I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does her actions deserve the attention? Thoughts?
*"Hey guys, so something a bit odd happened yesterday at a café. I was sitting alone, just having a drink, and a group of girls from a nearby college table kept staring at me. At one point, one of them (who was wearing...
he-takes-a-part
Xper 6 Age: 30 Girls, Ladies what’s your definition of a guy who’s got attractive qualities?
Outside of the looks department. Suppose an average schmo approaches you, what qualities would you consider a gentleman?
blackeagle007
Yoda Age: 45 Why is she seeking my attention?
So, a girl had been single for a while. I knew she had been single for the last few months, so I approached her, knowing she was available. Even before I pursued my intentions, we were getting close. We exchanged numbers...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Does she have feelings for me?
So lately she has been distant from me. I mean she has approached me a couple of times, more like three times and we did initiate some conversations. I did observe that she was trying to get subtly close to me as she...
Bluedragon1234
Xper 4 Age: 99 Girls, How do approach a woman as a bigger guy?
My whole problem with women my whole life has been a severe fear of rejection by women. I'm terrified they're going to yell at me or humiliate me. I also don't know what kind of women I'm allowed to talk to. I wouldn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, What do girls think of guys with low self esteem who don’t even try to talk or approach?
Like I don’t even try to make eye contact I have no idea if it comes off rude but I just don’t do it
Anonymous
(30-35) Anonymous
(25-29) He is not serious about me but doesn't want me to date anyone else. What to do?
He (37M) convinced me to stop dating every boy that aproached me (24F), even though he is never serious about me. And yesterday when I called him a little girl picked up. How to talk to him about this? He is a pilot who...
Pdarag
Xper 1 Age: 25 When should I not approach a girl?
I ask this question because sometimes i see girls at my college campus, in the library for example, they’re working on assignments and have their headphones on. I feel like i’d be a burden if i walked up to them and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Advice for my friends attending speed dating?
Last night I went with my guy and girl friend to a speed dating event. ( I was there for support only). It was their first time doing this kind of event and they are on their 30’s. This was a new kind of speed dating I...
Iquestioneverything
Xper 5 Age: 37 How to stop falling in love with people who are kind to me?
For context: my childhood was spent in a big, joint family full of judgmental elders. Growing up I was very quiet and shy and never really had much friends. I went to an all-girls school as well. I was never approached...
Anonymous
(18-24) Would you approach a really cute girl in the club or you are afraid/shy to do so?
A guy texted me saying that he saw me at the club last night, and I asked why didn't you approached me. He said I was too cute and he wasn't drunk enough to come up to me. If you were in the club, would you confidently...
jguo4
Xper 1 Age: 24 Am I the only one who thinks it’s cute and sweet when guys slide into a girl’s DMs to try to get to know her?
I’m a big supporter of giving any man who wants to date you a chance, especially at my age. I personally believe women should be married and if a woman makes it to my age without being married, she can still find a...
Anonymous
(36-45) What could this mean?
So there's this girl at my college whom I've met briefly before in a class we had a couple semesters ago. We had a very lengthy conversation, but no numbers nor names where exchanged. Fast forward to the present, I see...
Anonymous
(18-24) If a guy shows these signs towards a girl does he like her?
context he’s my coworker. He’s very professional, but I have noticed these signs. 1) stares at a distance, looks down when I catch him. This happens regularly, 2) engages in intense eye contact, like longer than normal...
Ferngully2000
Xper 5 Age: 26 What does it mean when a guy softens his voice towards a girl?
On Friday I was at school with my friend during recess. The moment I walked out the door to the playground, I found him right in front of me, approached him and asked if we could go to the lawn and sit there, chatting...
Anonymous
(18-24) What does it mean when in Europe, a guy says you look interesting?
I am a Latina girl in Sweden. A Swedish guy randomly approached me and told me I look interesting and he wanted my number and wanted me to get drinks with him. And no I do not have any deformities or abnormalities lol. I...
Anonymous
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