If you get the vibe a guy likes you, why does he never approach?

[Anonymous]

I get the vibe that a guy really likes me but he doesn’t approach. He seems confident with others, but a bit quiet or doesn’t know what to say with me.

He locks eyes with me a lot and stares from a distance, but why doesn’t he make a move, How do you know if a guy is intimidated by a girl, attached or just not interested?

[Shiprex]

Rejection isn't a nice experience. Make him know you're interested by YOU making some moves to clear the confusion

[Shiprex]

It's important that women are clear in their communication without being demanding. The notion that men are weak is as toxic as women are easy. NO we don't respond to smiles, that's just politeness, the nods and looking away is just noticing, a wave is stronger but words are better.

Also women need to step up and quit being weak and defenceless if there's something they want. Disallowing replies to obnoxious misandrist assertions is evidence they have poor or no understanding of how men work.

[Anonymous]

He definitely is interested, and he probably at least thinks your attactive. You'd have to talk to him to know for sure. He could be like me and get too anxious to do anything.

[Nikki1989]

Many men are weak, cowards these days.

Wait a minute, and you will see men on here proving me 100% correct.

[EmmaMary]

How about you getting your arse in gear and approaching him instead?

[Anonymous]

He's smart doesn't want to risk a violation of the MeToo statutes

[Asker]

Oh you reckon, yes maybe, but how do you ever get around that then?

[Opinion Owner]

You'll have to approach him

[spartan55]

Is there something stopping you from talking to him?

[msc545]

Ask him how he feels about you. Men no longer approach women thanks to metoo and all of that.

[SteveSmith1985]

For the same reason you don't approach

[glennos89]

Insecure

[Asker]

Why would he be insecure? You mean like a lack of confidence thing? He is a good looking guy, so I’m confused.

[glennos89]

Good looking guys can be very shy as well. Sometimes they might not see themselves as good looking and sometimes they aren't great communicators when they don't know a person.

I have this problem also. I totally suck at flirting because my brain shuts down once I see a beautiful woman and I have no clue what to say or how to act🫣

[Asker]

Aw thank you, i see what you mean. Ah it’s so hard, what do you think I should do? Approach him?

[glennos89]

Approach him 💯 Guys don't get that much attention of they don't initiate it themselves.

Personally I love it when a girl shows me she is interested in me and makes the first move. Then I immediately know she is really liking me for who I am

[Asker]

Ok thanks I will do that, appreciate it

[glennos89]

Your welcome. Good luck I hope you will succeed 🤞🏼