Search Results: never had a date

Why do some people obsessively chase someone who clearly isn’t interested?

This is something i see in men and women both. I will give an example i saw recently. My wife has a female friend who comes over occasionally for lunch on Sundays. Recently she was pretty much crying on my wife's shoulder...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is being in a relationship actually worth it, or is it better to stay single?

I hear a lot of mixed opinions on being in a relationship/married and single. People that are married always say don’t get married. Others say they hate being single. I’m 36 never been in a relationship and very rarely...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why would a man repeatedly cheat on the mother of his child like this?

a little backstory I was in a long-term relationship for 4 1/2 years we were supposed to get married, but he ended up cheating on me multiple times we got pregnant and we separated at three months postpartum. he got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do women worship ambiguity so much while dating?

and even become extremely defensive when that ambiguity is taken away from them? it seems like women never want to date in clear and linear scenes. they instead want enough space to send mix signals or have access to...

Filthy_Immigrant

Yoda Age: 39

Dating

Should I date my 50-year-old dog walking friend with a big age gap?

I started walking little pekingese fifi around 4 weeks ago on the local beach as the weather is starting to improve and I thought it be nice. One morning a staffy came running towards fifi. Fifi is only little and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do men regret losing a woman they never committed to once she leaves?

Long story short; We hooked up then kept seeing each other. I wanted a relationship when I realize he has good personality too. He didn't do anything to deepen the relationship; taking me on a date outside etc. so I DID...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I stay hopeful about a long-distance crush without feeling delusional?

I don’t wanna count my chickens because while we did meet in person at an event, most of the time she lives about 1000 miles from me, but she very affirmatively agreed for a rain check to a date and we’re supposed to have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do women still want flowers on a first date, and why or why not?

I never gave a girl flowers for a first date obviously, and I think it is a bit silly if you ask me, especially if you don't really know each other, but what do you think? Why? I am honestly just curious because someone...

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

Dating

Do some woman know how to hide a body so that the guy can never leave?

Every girl I've dated has had oddly specific details on how they'd hide a body. As in they almost get excited when the topic comes up. As if they've rehearsed their response and I'm just now thinking... Is this some sort...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Relationships

Hooked up with my toxic ex on a trip after years apart—how do I face him now?

I dated my ex about 10 years ago when they we were 18. It was my first love, but the relationship turned toxic quite quickly. He was disrespectful, flirted with other girls, nearly cheated, and mostly only seemed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do guys fight so hard to keep you in the gray zone?

I was reading a book and realized that the guys I’ve liked in the past that rejected me all did moves where when they felt me pulling away for any reason, they’d come back with bigger gestures than before but still never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Was I wrong to tell my new partner about being sexually abused by my ex?

I started dating this guy last year and I shared with him that my previous partner had raped me ( happened 2 years prior and he was the 1st guy I had dated) and I wanted to be honest because I had developed some PTSD and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are women so wary of someone who has never dated before?

Shrimpenjoyer

Xper 5 Age: 27

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Dating

Which date night outfit should I wear if I’m short and shy about my legs?

I’m short & have blonde hair. With any of these outfits I plan being a crop black jacket over & shoes black flats I’m skinny so I like to cover my legs but fear I won’t like the tube dress as guys stare at girls that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m short & have blonde hair. With any of these outfits I plan being a crop black jacket over & shoes black flats I’m skinny so I like to cover my legs but fear I won’t like the

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Dating

Do middle school “relationships” really count as dating experience?

I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child and would only giggle when anyone...

Autumnsummerspring

Xper 1 Age: 22

I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child

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Education & Career

Has anyone struggled for years to finish college and felt like this?

I’m finally going to graduate with my bachelor’s degree in two weeks. It’s took me 10 years since graduating from HS to get my degree. I was in college for 10 years. And to be honest the last 5 were the most brutal years...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I cut off a man who relies on me emotionally but won’t commit?

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together.

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Dating

Why did this guy ditch our first date like that and should I feel embarrassed?

So I ended up going out with the guy I made a post about yesterday. This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go. I canceled on him yesterday cause he was too last minute, when it came to the details. So i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do I always feel single and not like a real girlfriend in dating?

I never had a boyfriend. I’m 28. I always feel single with each guy I date. i never get asked by a guy do u want be my girlfriend? I just assume in head ok he’s my boyfriend but I always feel single 😓 I see girls live...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

She said I’d be a great father but a bad boyfriend—what does that mean?

This girl who said that, we had a pretty beautiful date. We went to the park together, and sat in the good sun. I played with white flowers, and put them in her hair... we also went and got chocolates and treats....

Anonymous

(25-29)