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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?

Lost my hair to an uncommon type of alopecia as a teen. Shaved what’s left since. Now 26. I pull off bald well but now developed a type of eczema that affects the scalp-you know which is bald. This can take months to settle down. So it’s either shaved scalp with fiery red patches OR a wig.

I began wearing full male wigs and honestly they look amazing, one is about $500 and lasts 6-12 months. I must stress these look very real. I often see people claim ‘all wigs look fake’ but you only notice the bad ones. Decent quality ones are great.

Anyway met many other men and women who all wear them as well through the hair dresser who supplies them and am finding it’s really common even for guys. I’m just curious how women will view it dating. I wouldn’t hide it at all and would share by the 2nd or 3rd date so only a couple weeks into talking to someone. Honestly I view them as no different than makeup or extensions etc.

AGAIN I MUST STRESS I DONT HIDE THE FACT I WEAR THEM. I honestly just kind of like having styles beyond just shaved again.

To finish since on the first one, I was out of space for the first one to finish so here we go:

His personality is yet charming but very slick and clever with his words but he says with intent and much sweetness in charm in approach in deliverance to be expressed for you in acceptance to start to feel a passionate feeling that no other man in your life has ever made you feel like ever before. He also has an old soul along with it which adds to his mystique and personality. He is a gentleman and a man who can possibly be perceived as a once in a lifetime kind of man you don’t see in all qualities that’ll almost put close to call the “Perfect Guy”. Undoubtedly, I’m not saying he is or doesn’t have flaws because he does, as do all of us, but the way he’ll grasp you closer to him in his own way, you would happen to think in your mind he is the closest to that notion.

When he tends to to go forth in his desire to prove if he’s worthy to be claimed as her King and Champion of her Heart, he gets time to get to know her personally but the most important thing before stepping into a relationship ladies and gentleman: You have to study a person during the time you get to know and learn about them as an individual. It needs to marinate and grow naturally between two people cause when you get to learn about someone, you always have to study a person like of their interests, their mannerisms, their personality and things they like, and who they are as a person.