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Guys and Girls of GAG do you know the difference between a Nice Guy, and a Good Man?

I ask because it seems a ton of you dont, especially the ones who whine about not being able to find a girlfriend, and complain about the women who choose assholes.

1: Good men are direct in communication. Nice guys never take a position.

Nice guys tend to walk on eggshells when they communicate because of a lack of self worth and confidence in who they are, and therefore what they’re saying.

2: Good men face rejection. Nice guys avoid it.

Go get rejected more often. Nice guys spend so much time avoiding rejection like the plague that they never actually experience it.

3: Good men are focused on being KIND, not “nice.”

Think about all of the people you consider to be “nice guys.” What qualities do they have that you really admire?

4: Good men hold confident posture. Nice guys shrink themselves.

One of the clearest ways to project confidence (or lack thereof) is how you carry yourself. Your body language and non-verbal cues send vibes across the room before you even talk to anyone.

5: Good men value their health and fitness. Nice guys “get what they get.”

I understand this is a controversial opinion and I’m not here to shame or blame — but self-worth and respect is often projected through how you treat yourself.

6: Good men cultivate hobbies. Nice guys sit around and never try anything new.

Let’s face it dude, it’s not because you’re nice that you keep losing, it’s because you’re boring.

7: Good men maintain their identity. Nice guys mold to what other people want.

One of the easiest ways to lose something is to want it too badly.

8: Good men have SELF worth. Nice guys live for external validation.

Men are conditioned from an early age that our value comes from things like our job, level of income, the car we drive, and (you guessed it), acceptance from women.

9: Good men take control of self-talk. Nice guys are controlled BY it.

The way we talk to ourselves when we’re by ourselves shapes our identity and our reality.

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Bottom line, the men that Brag about being nice guys, while at the same time remain single, are not good men, and in most cases they are abusive, toxic, dishonest, passive aggressive, and generally the worst kind of partner.

A lot of women on this site seem to think i only take pot shots at women from time to time, hopefully this is evidence to the contrary because a lot of men out there, especially on this site are "Nice guys" but not "Good men"
Guys and Girls of GAG do you know the difference between a Nice Guy, and a Good Man?
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