Search Results: abusive boyfriend

Why does my boyfriend make me feel bad about myself by talking about other women as objects?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. The other day we were fooling around on the sofa and kissing and touching etc. but we didn’t have sex because I started shaking and felt uncomfortable because I’ve had a...

TalulahT2848

Xper 1 Age: 33

Dating

Is my friend in a toxic/abusive relationship?

My male friend (we are just friends before anyone asks) started dating a girl a year and a half ago. This is his second girlfriend. When they first started dating, she seemed really nice and sweet and we all got along...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why did my friend make me feel so bad and guilty for breaking up with my narcissist/psychopath ex boyfriend?

I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago. He ruined my mental health and was very emotionally abusive and controlling. He also sexually abused me on a daily basis in our relationship and played constant mind games and...

TalulahT2848

Xper 1 Age: 33

Why does news about first love unnerves you?

I mean it's not even an old boyfriend. A case of right person wrong time and you've been in touch over a decade. After a few years you both were normal acquaintances who dated other people and when you're single you never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think men who brag all the time about how easily they get women are being truthful?

I don’t know what to believe anymore when it comes to what my boyfriend tells me. It’s like everything that comes out of his mouth lately contradicts what he told me earlier in our relationship. He has a serious anger...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I expecting too much?

I have an abusive ex that has been bothering me lately, begging me to get back with him, sending me jewelry in the mail, having expensive dinners delivered, lingerie, etc. I did not ask for any of that but he won't stop....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my boyfriend abusive?

Recently I’ve started to wonder if my boyfriend is abusing me. Here are the reasons why: - He engages in constant sex talk, sexualisation, hyper sexuality, saying degrading things about women, strips on video calls,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do a guy who is suffering from a break up wants to trauma bond with me?

So this guy I recently met had a break up 2 months ago and I'm too gonna break up soon with my abusive boyfriend. He told that he wants to trauma bond with me so that it will be easier for both of us to heal faster. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is it normal to be super traumatized over getting hit with a belt by my mother?

I'm a very sensitive person by nature and even many years later, I still can't get over my mother using that as ''discipline''. I hated it, my relationship with my mother hasn't ever been close and unlike the crowd that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it really a red flag if your boyfriend doesn't want you to wear revealing clothes outside?

I don't see why such men are called red flags or abusive simply from this one thing they do. Maybe it's because I grew up in a kinda-conservative family I don't know but I think it's actually pretty sweet.

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don't see why such men are called red flags or abusive simply from this one thing they do. Maybe it's because I grew up in a kinda-conservative family I don't know but I think it's

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Dating

My to-be-boyfriend has a stain on his criminal record- should I keep it a secret from my family and pray they don't google him?

I'm not here for comments about my boyfriend, I believe he is innocent and I believe that because I was in court through the whole trial and have read all the documents in the case etc. The thing is that I used to have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Am I in an abusive relationship? or am I being dramatic because im pregnant?

I'm 7 months pregnant, with my boyfriend 1 year. We have been fighting recently over stupid things but I feel like they are being heightened due to hormones and stress from the both of us. But my boyfriend treated me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't I take action on break up from abusive boyfriend even I know I should?

So guys we've been in relationship for 2 years. Thorought the relationship I have heard many hurtful things from him. His talking to me have made me feel he doesn't love me. I' ve been compared to his ex's. He would say...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should I politely ell my boyfriend that I have lost all feelings for him and want to break up with him?

Hi everyone. I've been in relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and in these 2 years he has shown abusive behavior towards me. He has lied to me and acted shady. He has disrespected me a lot so I have lost all...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriend with anxiety and a past of depression broke up with me?

My ex broke up with me about a week ago. She suffers from anxiety and has had depression in the past. Her first and previous relationship wasn't abusive but was unhealthy. We were together for over 8 months. She struggled...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can u say u love someone but continue to do things that hurt ur spouse?

My boyfriend and I been together 10 months. He says he loves me a lot. He spends every single day with me on the phone and sleeps with me on the phone because I have nightmares He listens to my feelings and is always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I had an extremely creepy nightmare about my boyfriend being abusive and I feel scared?

It was so creepy. I dreamt that all was going well, then once day he switched. He became obsessed with me. That moment he did not want me to move away from him. He already moved into my house and I had no idea how to move...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I leave my abusive boyfriend?

So I had told my boyfriend many times before about the things he did to hurt and disrespect me. He didn't acknowledge and was not sorry about the things he did that time. He was saying like "I never said that" "you are...

Anonymous

(25-29)