Do you think men who brag all the time about how easily they get women are being truthful?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know what to believe anymore when it comes to what my boyfriend tells me. It’s like everything that comes out of his mouth lately contradicts what he told me earlier in our relationship.

He has a serious anger problem and is mentally and physically abusive.

Probably once a week, he’s threatening to break up with me and saying that it’s so easy for him to get p*ssy elsewhere. But then yesterday he told me that in the last two years, he’s only slept with three women, including myself.

I feel like he’s not the stud that he thinks he is. I’m starting to think that he’s trying to convince himself (and not me) that it’s super easy for him to get another woman.

he said that he doesn’t love me and only told me that because he wanted to get laid. But the thing is, we had already been sleeping together for about two months before he said “I love you.” But then later the same evening, he called me to ask me if I loved him.

something is going on with him because he’s not been acting like his normal weird self the last month or so. He’s always been odd, but he’s more odd than normal lately.

[Peter_Penetrator]

If he was only mentally abusive towards you that would be one thing. But physically abusive is another. How old is he. If he is in his early to mid 20’s l would say he needs psychiatric help.


You need to decide if you want to risk your life being with him. He isn’t going to get better on his own. If he is self medicating someway then that decision for you to stay or leave needs to be a definite decision to leave.



The 20’s is when these issues begin to manifest out of the stresses of supporting yourself. Can he hold down a job? If not then this complicates things for him by having to deal with people that he works with.


Keep yourself safe.

[ohsheeT]

First of all I would walk away I would have already walked away if I was you because it's going to get worse

I think it's a manipulation I think he's manipulating you trying to project himself being bigger and better than he truly is and if he has anger issues and if he's abusive that means he's forceful and one day he's going to be that way with you I would walk away if I was you I have a bad feeling about this

[ta-ra]

You said he was "mentally and physically abusive" RUN don't walk away. He is trying to lower your self esteem so you stay in that toxic ass relationship because he has issues and no other girl he has had will put up with it. Know your worth.
Who cares if he does have a 100 girls (which is highly unlikely in my opinion) on call they aren't you, never will be. Get you a man who will treat you good. You deserve better

[LazerBean]

Well to be fair people are very easy these days, so it may be true. But even if it's not, a man who thinks being a whore is something to brag about is just about as low quality as a man who actually is a whore.

[HiveBee]

I argue that there are zero women who are "easy."

That is why men are angry. Men wish women would be sluts who fuck anything like us men are. (So they tell women not to have sex at all and remain virgins because they're jealous that some men get sex, but they do not. Therefore, socially try to force women to remain virgins but I digress...)

But women are not like that. An individual woman may be "easy" but easy for who?

Not all men that's for sure. There's 100% a bracket of men who get zero action whatsoever.

If a woman is "easy" she is only easy for certain types of men, that other men all wish we could. be.

Most men wish we could be the man who women are "easy" for.

In reverse, us men are actually easy. I knew countless good looking guys who were players, who regularly had sex with women that were 1-3's out of 10.

In fact, the bottom of the barrel women are the ones that players most often have sex with. I know this because I've seen it.

The same is not true in reverse. No women are having casual sex with men who are 1-5 out of 10.

And that's why so many men are angry at women. Because women don't equally distribute the sex.

Then again, they get angry when women have sex at all. They claim they want a "pure" woman.

in my opinion that just comes from those men being angry that those women who have casual sex, are not having casual sex with the men who are 1-5's out of 10.

Additionally other women shame women for having casual sex. I'm not sure why. I don't know why a woman accuses other women of being "easy" when women do not have casual sex with repulsive men. They do not fuck just anyone. Women are very selective and men are pissed about it while also being hypocritical and shaming women for having the sex that they wish was being had with him not someone else.

Just a little commentary. I am not angry nor do I hate women so don't misread my shit.

[LazerBean]

Most women are easy, just not as easy as you. Cry about it.

[HiveBee]

If you thought I was mad you clearly didn't read.

[Mewzinc]

@HiveBee where are you from if you don't mind me asking?

[UnicornLobotomy]

@HiveBee You are a simp. Get your testosterone checked. Hopefully you don’t reproduce. Many women are easy you just are counting the ones who are fives or below or older women. And many men are not easy. Their are many rich 7s and 8-10s in looks that multiple women fight over and who get a lot of attention, they like many attractive women, have options and/or are in relationships. Love triangles form around too tier people creating real life soap opera dramas unfolding every day. Its not easy as much as it winning the genetic lottery but life’s a struggle for everyone in some way or form. You are sort of right, women aren’t necessarily easy but neither are men. In slums poor trailer parks and ghettos where people grovel for rice and beans, it’s different. If a supermodel suddenly wanted sleep with a fat loser who simps online, he’d be easy. Just like an 8 between 30-40 could talk his way into almost any single mom’s bed.

[HiveBee]

I love how a woman gets mad and a man gets mad.

You both can't be mad, my take should only piss off the men.

I stand by what I said. Women have standards.

Beta males don't get laid. That's why there are so many INCELS and SIMPS.

The bottom of the barrel men get ZERO ACTION.

The bottom of the barrel women get as much action as they like if they so choose.

Period.

[HiveBee]

Also I'm furthest from a simp because when I was a kid a girl asked me out so that everyone could laugh at me.

Since then I never trusted a woman.

[BoopBoopBeep]

There are always women just giving it away. There's 8 billion people in the world. The question is can he get high caliber pussy or is he picking up some toothless chick on the wharf.

[Asker]

According to him, every woman he’s been with has cheated on him, and I think that’s why he’s so paranoid that I’m going to do it too. He’s also very self-conscious about the size of his manhood. He’s kind of got a Napoleon complex I guess.

[BoopBoopBeep]

We've all been cheated on. You can't blame the next person for the last person's failures though.

[EmyyWolf]

HELL NO.

THE LOUDER THEY BRAG. THE MORE THEY BRAG. THE MORE THE BARK…..

The less likely it is to be true. Or they’re that undesirable and insecure that they need to brag lol. These type people are a turn off. I run from them. Let them keep their imaginary crown 👑.

[spartan55]

Wow, real high quality guy you have for a boyfriend. I guess having some self respect and dumping him hasn't crossed your mind?

[Asker]

It’s not that simple when he’s threatening to k*ll my dog if I end up with another dude. He’s told me that I’ll be on the show “first 48” if I’m not careful

[spartan55]

So are you just going to wait around for him to kill you someday?

[UnicornLobotomy]

Leave him before y’all marry or have kids. Thats it.

[rienna888]

No it’s all insecurities, the ones who brag the most usuallly don’t get women because the ones who do get women, their existence is proof they can. No need to brag. The ones who brag need to tell you they’re getting women cuz they know you can see they don’t

[DryGermanGuy]

Absolutely not. I have been friends with several couples over the decades and whenever the guy went around bragging what a stallion he was, their girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend) had quite a different story to tell. And the guy I had to endure bragging the most about getting women was a closeted homosexual (what the hell he was thinking, I will never know).

[TipsyFr]

When you think of a good relationship is physical or mental abuse part of that relationship. Any abuse like that and you should leave, end off he’s not worth it. There are plenty other guys out there just like he’s said plenty of other women out there. Your probably not a saint either we all have our faults but there’s no justification for that kind of abuse. ✌️

[HiveBee]

It depends. Women do like certain types of guys. It's why you see so many men trying to emulate those guys.

It's why men in general try to copy the guys who get laid.

Because women like to fuck a certain type of man, and not the rest.

The rest of men wish to be good enough to be the guy who gets to fuck freely. But that is ultimately reserved for a special few.

It just depends on if the guy in question is one or not.

[rigmarole]

So he lies about a lot of things... You choose to believe the lies that make him look smaller... Guess what people can lie about their body count either up or down. They tell you what they think you want to hear to make you comfortable so that you will be willing to sleep with them... You obviously want to believe he hasn't slept with a lot of girls. He could have easily picked up on your desire for a guy that hasn't been sleeping around and is looking for a stable relationship, and thus that's what he told you because that's what you needed to hear... You cling to one potential lie to dismiss another potential lie. At the end of the day he lies a lot... It is what it is...

[rigmarole]

There are millions of girls just like you that will fall for the same sad story an same series of sweet talk and end up sleeping with a guy like him for a while until he starts acting crazy... He had his mask on to get in the door...

[rigmarole]

*and

[Asker]

Actually, I always assumed that his body count was like 1000. So him telling me that he’s only been with three women in the past couple of years is, quite frankly, unbelievable to me.

[Asker]

Did you not read my entire post? I said we were already having sex before he even told me that he loved me. So there was no need for him to tell me he loved me since he was already getting laid by me. Talking about love was completely unnecessary because it didn’t give him anything that he wasn’t already getting from me.

[rigmarole]

Well he's obviously playing with your emotions right? Maybe he plays girls for the sense of power...
Maybe he's a sadistic fuck... Maybe that's what he gets out of it... You're trying to think about how it would benefit you if you were him, but are you an emotional and physical abuse? Are you wired the same way he is? Think outside the box.

[MikeInHawaii]

Sex, income and top speed of their cars are probably the subjects men lie about the most. Women lie just as much about sex, but in the opposite direction. (Some estimates are that one out of seven women claiming virginity actually are virgins.)

[Huntingnfishin]

Sounds a lot like my first ex. I let that kind of talk go on for too long and it destroyed my self esteem. If he pulls that one more time break it off with him. I'm serious it'll destroy you if you let it go on.

[zagor]

I guess it depends on the guy. I had a co-worker who told me he had gotten a lot of girls at a couple clubs I used to go to; he was short and not particularly good-looking. But he was very friendly and gregarious. So I don't know if he was telling the truth, as he also always put such a positive spin on everything.

Another guy I used to work with actually had women after him all the time, but he was exceptionally good-looking.

[Billlewis]

I'd say probably 2/3 of them are exaggerating or lying outright, but there's no doubt that some of them are being truthful.

[Billlewis]

Most of them haven't had pussy since pussy had them... lol

[Anonymous]

The fact that you are sharing your mind, body and soul with 'He has a serious anger problem and is mentally and physically abusive.' answers your own question in full.

'we had already been sleeping together for about two months...' See above.

'I feel like he’s not the stud that he thinks he is'

Yet you are still with him. He is still taking up your thoughts and you made a whole Mytake about him...

[inhua]

the ones who brag about other men easily getting women are even less truthful

especially when the man they mention is short, ugly and overall undesirable and somehow people are suppose to believe them

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 anyone who says that ARE LYING. It’s like them telling everyone how big their ding dong is. If you got one or a player, you don’t have to brag. Your reputation will speak for itself!

[Lokiion]

99% of them aren't anyone that can actually pull keeps it to themselves

[Friendlybro79]

The answer to these kinds of questions are not able to be answered truthfully without the answer being sometimes yes and sometimes no.

[Anonymous]

Most are just trying to make it seem like they can move on easily, but if that were the case, why don't they?

[Anonymous]

Some are, some aren't. The guys I know like that don't brag much about it though.

[Unit1]

Yep. They are full of shit and monetize it from inexperienced and insecure guys.