What do you think about couples who brag on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend on Facebook who CONSTANTLY posts about how great and wonderful her boyfriend is and it's the most annoying thing ever to me. Then she posts about how her friends have disappeared because she's truly in love and happy. How about most of your single friends are annoyed with you being up your man's ass all the time "catering" to him (aka being a slave). I swear I feel like women are just dumb over dick and it's annoying as hell. Anyone else feel this way? How do you feel about people who constantly brag about their relationships on social media? They get on my nerves. I can't even go on Facebook without seeing couples me being single and can't get a decent guy who isn't a creep or an idiot it's just annoying to look at. I feel like there are WAY more important things we can be talking about. Ugh.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

I understand where you are coming from, I have guy friends who pretty much abandoned their guy friends and a social life to majority time with their significant other.

To your question do I think it's annoying if couples post things about themselves excessively, no I don't really care. If they are happy then hey, good for them, I mean that. I don't use Facebook that often and I mute things I don't want to see but if couples out there simply do this to make others (single people) feel like shit then they should cut out that immaturity because it's stupid.

I have always wanted a great girl to be with and at 31 going on to 32 I have yet to experience that. I finally came to the conclusion, why do I need a girl to make me happy. God has given me the health to be able to do things on my own like attend sporting events, go to the movies, go shopping, read, watch tv and do things alone. Of course, we want to do things with someone special but I'm used to doing things solo now it doesn't bother me.

[Asker]

I think most couples out there do the extra bragging to make singles feel like shit or like to send a message or something like they want other people to know their guy or girl is taken or something like shut up. Nobody wants your brainless girlfriend or your fuck boy dude but you

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Just don't show it bothers you. Focus on you, do your own thing. I know family members of mine who try to rub it in my face that I'm single and I cut them out of my life because it's stupid, I'm not going to deal with immature people like that, even if it's family, life is too short to worry about that.

[Asker]

Ha I've tried that but then I'm the asshole for not wanting to hang out with them 😂😂

[Asker]

And I've been doing my thing for six years (not counting the money hungry fuck boys because they're nobodies) kind of a bit too long to be alone. I just feel like something is wrong with me. Every female I know has love just fall in their lap and I for some reason have to go through some kind of hell.

[Lopezz1999]

It's incredibly annoying as hell.. to think that they want everyone in the entire universe to know about how happy they are is beyond me. What really gets me thinking is why they yap about their happiness thinking anyone would give the slightest shit about whatever they do. It really makes me sick.. even my first friend sister did this shit (after a break up too).. it's like her life revolved around social media.

[Asker]

Yeah it's all the way annoying but when I say stuff like this on social media I'm a mf villian 😂

[IzzyB55]

I post pictures w my boyfriend often but I also post about my dog too. I never post kissing pictures bc I personally feel like that's just too much unless it's a wedding or engagement photo it makes me uncomfortable seeing other people sucking face so I don't share that w others lol. If I post a pic w the boyfriend I usually put a funny caption but I avoid mushy stuff. I get annoyed seeing other people be like that so I don't want to force everyone on social media to see & hear my intimate moments. It's ok to share moments w friends & family but their should be a balance. I think people should keep the intimacy of the relationship off social media bc BARF...

[Asker]

I get wedding photos and stuff like that but I just can't stand the constant over sharing like "my man just took out the trash I love him" it's like great why aren't you married yet?

[xHoneyxBeex]

I've noticed that the people who post their entire relationship on social media typically are just trying to prove something or validate their relationship somehow which I think is kind of sad. If someone wants to post a sweet message about their partner on social media every now and then, I have no issues with that, but if it's EVERY DAY then I ultimately will start to wonder why they feel the need to do it. I mean, I love my boyfriend but I only tell HIM that, I don't feel the need to tell everyone on Facebook how much I love him, that just seems silly to me, you know? Lol

[Asker]

Exactly like that's great that you love your dude but he's right next to you 24/7 look over to him and say it. The whole world don't need to see it.

[zanypanda]

I personally feel that these types of people in the social media relationship are trying to gain validation. It's okay to post a few, but with social media being a major part of our world some people take it to a whole new level. I feel like if they are going to post so many pictures, let me know when there are bad times as well and also when the other partner disappears due to break up; explain to me what caused it because I've been invested in the relationship, liking pictures and commenting heart emojis.

[GirlNextBored]

Most everyone posts their best side on Facebook - it's rare for people to go on Facebook and talk about their issues or problems. They want the world to think their perfect. You have to realize that going in

[Asker]

Either way. It's still annoying. I hate when I ask my female friends how they're doing and they want to talk about their man! That's great he made you dinner why the fuck aren't you married yet?

[gaara87]

this answers couldn't be more appropriate for this qsn. all those people who instabrag, I'm gonna bet a majority will have dysfunctional relationship portrayed as filled with magic dust.

[Asker]

Yeah but you know we're wrong or bitter if we say stiff like that 😂😂😂

[Asker]

*stuff

[DodgersGM]

Hey, it's not just women. There's plenty of dudes l who feel the need to document and broadcast all of their cutesy moments.

Personally, I think it's weird and tacky AF. I don't want a publicized Facebook relationship. I value my privacy wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much.

[Asker]

That's how I feel but what annoys me is now she has a man and acts like she wasn't feeling how I was feeling about a month ago

[tiabell]

you kinda bitter if im gonna be completely honest. She isn't "dumb over dick" some people just like to display their lives and there isn't anything wrong with that. i like to keep my life on the Dl but one of my best friends likes to make everything known to everyone. people are different. if its so annoying unfriend her, simple as that

[Asker]

Nah definitely not bitter and they're boyfriends really ain't shit so they are dumb over dick. Next.

[tiabell]

hell yeah you're bitter lmao. read what u just said.

[Asker]

Like I said definitely not. They're boyfriends ain't shit like I said. Lying cheating dirt bags but ok. 👌

[TripleAce]

hahah holy fuck balls... you really have a way of airing out the dirty laundry hahahah

... facebook has been shown to bring people down... it's filled with nothing but nonsense... marriages... couples.. rich people... cars.. this and that.. just reminds you of the things you don't have..

But what's up with this chick... like she's one of those that just gives all her time to her man and then complains how her friends are not around? lol

[Asker]

She really did. Like when got a man and forgot everything else in her damn life then wants to call women single and bitter and shit like hello you wasn't just single bitch? Saying the same shit I was saying? Get all the way the fuck outta here!

[genericname85]

to be they are shameless. i mean you can love your partner without constantly posting about it online. it´s the internet version of pda... get a fucking room.

[Asker]

Exactly but I'm the bad guy for saying stuff like that though 😂😂

[genericname85]

yeah you are. just mute their shit or even unfriend them but don´t say suff like that or you´ll be an asshole cause people assume you don´t grant them their luck.

[Asker]

Well I'm an asshole then 😂 I'm not going to saying how I feel because they have a problem with it. Just like they enjoy flooding our timelines with sappy couple bullshit I can flood theirs with how annoying it is 😂😈 I would grant them luck if they weren't bragging all the time.

[Asker]

*stop

[genericname85]

just wait till the get kids... it´s gonna be a billion ugly baby pics every day with texts like "183th month" ... as if you just can´t ever ditch counting in months.

[Asker]

Well I have a kid so that doesn't bother me too much

[genericname85]

i unfriended so many people on facebook, who wouldn´t ever stop posting stupid baby pics xD i find it to be as bad as the pda bullshit xD

[Asker]

I don't post too many of my kid's pics in social media anymore I just share them with my close friends and family. Too many creeps on the internet now.

[genericname85]

i think it should be illegal to post your kids pics online alltogether. casue obviously they can´t give consent that their pics are shown...

[EmHenz]

honestly im annoyed when people OVER POST about their spouses. i do post photos and things related to my boyfriend tho, just not overly.

[Asker]

That's what I'm talking about. Like I don't mind wedding photos and stuff like that but I hate the posts where they talk about what their boyfriend did all day like ok he got you a bagel. I get my own bagels every day do you see me bragging about it?

[EmHenz]

LMAO yes. honestly if they post everyday about what their boyfriends did, it gets kindof annoying. im guilty of that tho :// sometimes when my boyfriend does exceptionally nice stuff, i post things online for him to show more appreciation and how thankful i am for him. i do refrain myself from overdoing it and making it seem like im boasting tho.

[Asker]

Well in your case I'll make an acception because at least you know what I'm talking about 😂

[Asker]

*exception

[EmHenz]

hehe

[mae_kookie]

i hate the "couple goals" shit and cute couple shit on the web

[Asker]

Oh yeah the "relationship goals" like girl bye.

[es20490446e]

Spam, they even post close ups of them french kissing. No surprise I'm no longer there.

[Asker]

Spam or not it's nauseating.

[es20490446e]

My feelings on Facebook:

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[Asker]

Yeah nauseating

[1truekhaleesi]

They are secretly unhappy. I know a couple where the girl always summarized how their relationship was doing in her Instagram bio. They didn't last long.

[Asker]

Be careful you may get called bitter or angry for saying the truth 😂😂

[Mihikko]

I don't really care, I guess good for them. I'd seen lot of post how wonderful their relationship is and its like nothing new so I just skip and continue scrolling down.

[JustinTheGreat]

It's kind of annoying.
The most annoying thing is when they post details about their sex life or when they post sexual pictures and tag each other in them... like do that in your messages. Not on your public feed 🙃

[Nice_Guy_Last]

My rule in life: to each their own. It's probably related to bragging. "I'm awesome because I got someone else awesome to be in a relationship with me."

[Asker]

I honestly think that's sad and pathetic I feel like I'm amongst a bunch of stupid idiot women who chose men over everything. If you need a man to make you feel good you seriously need help

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I don't think they need a man to feel good (at least, I wouldn't assume so), it's just another part of their life that they're happy about. I don't think that's wrong at all.

[Asker]

Ok but if your man is with you 24/7 do you really have to write a 10 page essay on Facebook about how you love him. You can just look to your right or left and tell him.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Again, to each their own, and I'm sorry it bothers you. Just block them if it bothers you so.

[Asker]

Yeah then I'm the villian and the mean one for doing so. It's like this couples need to realize single people don't want to be around your lovey dovey bs. Can't have your cake and eat it too.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

You're not. There doesn't have to be a villain. I remember being single and feeling left out and alone when others would brag about relationship stuff, and it hurt. I distanced myself from those conversations, and they didn't affect me. I realize that jealousy was understandable, but I shouldn't let that jealousy get in the way of others' happiness. That would be wrong of me, to force people to be a certain way because I got upset over them being them.

[Wonderer89]

Nailed it 👍🏻

[Asker]

Yeah but I'm always the villain with them. Excuse me for wanting to have a conversation that doesn't have to do with a man or relationships. There's more to life than having a man.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

i definitely agree. If that's how they always are in conversation, then I agree, that's a bit much. I was under the assumption it was just a social media thing.

I'm not saying that people don't get over-infatuated with their partners, many do, but for most regular people, relationships are the biggest part of their life. If social media is a reflection of life, then it's only natural that relationships dominate it.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

You'll find you a man, I trust you will.

[Asker]

Nope given up on that. The only guys that approach me are fuck boys that I will never want and when I ask a guy out they always reject me

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Try online. I went to eharmony, first match I got is now my wife and we have three kids.

[Asker]

Bad experiences there too. Too many creeps who wants to send dick pics 👎

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Eharmony? Guys pay money to send dick picks?

[Asker]

I haven't been on Eharmony that's why I've been on the other sites that were free

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Well, for dating sites, no payment attracts trolls and fuckboys, because trolls don't want to pay for maybe a laugh, and fuckboys don't have money to waste.

Obviously, I don't know what it's like to talk to a guy on there, but from my experience, it's a very mature environment. People are there to find love, willing to pay because they feel they've exhausted all other options, and because they're tired of the run around.

Give it a shot, and be very honest with yourself and the other person. I bet you will find happiness.

[Asker]

Might as well pay for a male hooker 😂😂

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Sorry, I feel like I am trying to be helpful, and that's being met with jaded cynicism.

[Asker]

Well when you try to date and get nothing but useless fuck boy shit birds it's kind of hard to be hopeful. Even the "nice guys" are douchebags. They only play the nice guy role so they can get what they want and when they don't they show their ass 💯

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I'm sorry it's been hard. Please understand that I share your frustration with guys. It pains me to know that guys are like that. I wish people would just try to be good to each other.

If you've given up on men, I'm so sorry we've pushed you to that, but if you are willing to give a man a chance to be a good person, try my suggestion. Trust me, I am not special. I am not unique, I am not many things. But what I am is loyal, loving, and passionate about my woman. If a dweeb like me can be that, for crying out loud, there has to be a few more guys like me out there.

I implore you, give it a go. For yourself and whoever is lucky enough to deserve you.

[Asker]

I've tried giving chances I just get fucked over and it turns to bullshit.

[ice66]

Most people should face their sexuality in their relationship and STOP facebooking it. Enough said...

[Asker]

Be careful you you might get called bitter 😂

[ice66]

Not very easy my dear.

[Asker]

I'm just saying. I get called bitter and angry because I don't want you see you over posting about your boyfriend that you always ditch your girls for.

[ice66]

Ouch sweety... If he ditches a girl like you he should be hung from his nuts to suffer and rethink his actions. Then be left there forever... jingle bells and all.

[Asker]

I wasn't talking about men I was talking about women who were single at one point and feeling how I was feeling now acting high and mighty because they have a man I barely talk to my female friends because they are too busy being a slave for a fuck boy. Can't even plan a girls night without they wanting to being their man. Fine he can come but he's paying for everyone.

[ice66]

Agreed. What saddens me is that men dont work to get what they get sexually. That is bullshit... if i dont deserve it, i dont want it. And my girlfriend gets her weekly ladies night!! Hell i wish she would take two. Every time she gets home i get to experience her like the queen she is to me... Its actually healthy to have time apart i believe

[Asker]

What does sexuality have to do with this?

[Wonderer89]

I feel happy for them that they've found someone that suits them and they're obviously happy.

[Asker]

I feel happy for them too but the constant over sharing and the mushy shit annoys me. Like you wrote a whole paragraph about how much you loved your dude and he's right next to you give me a break

[Wonderer89]

Can always hide people you don't want to see, but if they enjoy doing it for whatever reason - positive or negative - they should. Life is fully of sadness, anger and negativity, so what if someone what's to spread a bit of love to someone who is important to them

[Asker]

Seems to me a little overdone and trying to prove a point.

[Asker]

But I just unfriended them. They'll just get mad and ask why though.

[lareina05]

i just unfollow. I do the same when people post kid pictures every 5 minutes but it's their fb and they can do it.

[Asker]

Yeah I unfriended a lot of people. They're just gonna request me again and ask me why.

[lareina05]

You can unfollow without unfriending they would never know

[cutemz]

I wouldn't want my relationship to be all on sociable I prefer to be private

[blondfrog]

One of the biggest reasons why I left facebook. Or when people would give their morally righteous speeches on their walls.

[Asker]

Yeah I just unfriended a lot of people. They're gonna be mad though

[Yanoa_Yanza]

I don't see why I should be happy if my friends left me lol
What do I think about it... I don't go through the posts anymore

[akadatank44]

Their relationship will never last

[Asker]

Don't say that. You'll be called bitter and angry 😠😠

[Asker]

😂😂

[akadatank44]

Lmao I only state facts. These people need validatithat they made a right choice. And what makes me laugh my ass off is when their so sad it doesn't work out. Like what did you think? 😂

[Asker]

Well I don't laugh if it doesn't work out. I think what people are failing to see is that I'm happy you have someone that's great but some of us are hopeless and are not able to find that perfect so money and it's hard to watch everyone you know find their guy with no effort and you just sit there lonely asf wondering wtf is wrong with you. Then they are so quick to tell others to stay single and it's not your time to find someone like stfu 😠

[Probably_Friendzoned]

She's an obnoxious bitch.

[Asker]

Yeah just a tab bit annoying

[UnknownGagsUser]

Super annoying

[Asker]

Yes! Thank you 👍

[Jeepgirl1997]

it makes me wanna have a boyfriend

[DavidDivad]

its bullshit... talk about your lovers sweetie

[Asker]

One doesn't have any lovers shit one doesn't even believe in love tbh

[Savagel_loC]

They insecure

[Asker]

Don't say the real truth you might get called bitter and angry 😂😂