Do you hate it when couples brag about how great their relationship is?

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el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry, but I would laugh at some of them. Not all couples on social media are having a good relationship. It's just a photo of millisecond of a moment which yeah can be real. I love to see people actually love each other.

However, sometimes if you look closely enough, not both in the couple are merry. Most are tagged photos without their partner's consent. I recall one. It's a tagged photo of a couple by the female. In the photo, the male was playing his game on the phone ignoring his partner. Is that look healthy?

Plus, there are psychological studies of how most insecure/ low self-esteem people would post their photos related to their relationship more often.
(These are articles mentioning of some studies.)
https://brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/according-to-a-study-couples-who-post-a-lot-about-themselves-on-social-media-are-insecure-794040/?utm_source=brightside_web&utm_medium=article&utm_campaign=share_main&utm_content=copylink_794040
https://www.bolde.com/15-signs-facebook-perfect-relationship-isnt-great-real-life/

Personally, I have recieved messages from married men, flirting with me whose their profile pic was a seemingly happy family photo. It's just a tip of an iceburg.

Shivvy123 · Accepted Answer

No I actually think it's funny because no relationship is perfect and the ones pretending theirs is are just looking for validation because most of the time they're insecure in that relationship. Couples that go through their relationship without having to throw it in others faces i. e on social media etc are usually the strongest most secure ones.

CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

It can be a little annoying if it goes too far, but it doesn't really bother me that much. In fact, it actually makes me concerned about the two of them because I've seen quite a few cases of couples doing that and then breaking up. I suspect that in a lot of cases, that "bragging" is actually trying to cover up problems they're having in the relationship and/or trying to convince themselves or each other that things are better than they actually are.

I think it's nice when couples appreciate each other and occasionally express that publicly, but when it becomes too frequent or too extreme, I start suspecting that things are really not anywhere near as good in the relationship as they're making it sound.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Accepted Answer

Nah i see through the facade. Any couple who needs to prove themselves to other people have some messed up shit going on behind closed doors

Desconhecida · Answer

No. Because if they need to brag about it, the relationship is not that great.

nella965 · Answer

I think it’s obnoxious and a sign there’s something weird about the relationship

and here’s a message to the couples that post about this stuff on social media :

8.5 out of 10 times , people are annoyed by you and really don’t care. It just makes them wonder what is wrong with the both of you to think that everyone would care.

And your friends who pretend to like your post and tell you all the lip service praises that you wanna hear? They are only doing it because they is a duty expected out of “friends “. Seriously , stop. It just annoys other people.

GlitterFairy16 · Answer

No, sometimes it's lovely to hear about two people who are in love and happy. In a world full of hate and disfunctional relationships its really heart warming to hear. Its annoying when people post it om social media constantly and cringey af. No one on social media cares about your relationship and its as if you are over compensating and trying to convince people your in a happy relationship.

menina · Answer

Yes, it's kinda annoying. And most of the times their relationship isn't that amazing, they just want to make people think that they're happy. Make others jealous and pretend that everything is ok.
In fact, they might be unhappy and feeling miserable. They just stick together for some reason.

Eggplant29 · Answer

It's okay to talk about it but not to brag.

Also a relationship is never static and takes a lot of work. Bragging about it like it's something you 'own' betrays the vital work that needs to be put into it.

As a single person it smarts too.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

I find it both annoying and funny.

Annoying cause... yeah good for you guys but no one really cares 🤣
And funny because if you feel the need to brag about your relationship then there is a 99% chance that you are lying.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Maybe if it's every 5 mins then, yeah.. but other than that I like hearing people talking about how in love they are with someone that makes them happy.

BCA6010 · Answer

Hate is a strong word, but I do see it as looking for attention.

I also find it amusing when people put all this crap about "soul mate" or "love of my life" and "happiest I've ever been" and yet not a month later they're saying the same sh*t about someone completely different.

Cherokeehp · Answer

No, cause I typically assume they’re just lying or only showing off the good parts. People constantly tell my boyfriend and I that we’re a perfect match and that we’re “couples goals”. But the truth is no matter how great we seem, we still have stupid giant arguments, and shouting matches, and all that stuff. Behind closed doors all great relationships have their fucked up moments. It’s cute that they wanna brag and talk about their relationships, but relationships are nitty-gritty and messy.

pandabearr · Answer

I used to want to post about pictures of my relationships with boyfriends before but it was more because I was insecure. The relationship wasn’t great and I wanted to seek validation and prove that it was great. It does annoy me sometimes when couples overdo it like everyday.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sure they do, until they get home and fight over who gets to use the bathroom first and she uses his toothbrush to clean the rim because he had poor aim. Let Round 1 commence!

Kimgary · Answer

There’s nothing to hate, if you feel they are saying it to make you feel bad, it’s best you just space yourself away from around them, but don’t carry the weight of hate

Anonymous · Answer

No it’s refreshing to know that love still exists. I have had terrible experiences but when I see couples who are really in love it makes me hope that I can get the real deal too. Something solid and real. It makes me a little jealous too, I won’t lie. But it’s not bad to hear about other people’s love lives. I would rather it make me a little jealous than to feel like love isn’t real

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nahh. Some people search forever. So once they get it, they deserve it

Petra150 · Answer

No, I really want to feel really hypocritical. since i love my amazing and beautiful beloved guy whom i have to marry after enjoying over 10 years with him and our two wonderful girls

Shuri · Answer

I used to but that was because I was bitter that I couldn't find a good man lol. It's almost been 10 months with my love, and we're discussing getting engaged within the year now, so I'm not upset about it anymore lol

Shamalien · Answer

yeah because I know that if they are seeking validation, they have issues, but they are trying to get past them by squeezing my supple jealousy utters and taking the milk.  NO MILK FOR YOU!

AdithyaR · Answer

I wouldn't know cause I wasn't listening to them in the first place. I only pay attention if people talk about anything actually useful and worth listening to.

StarryCrossing · Answer

It’s cute I think but it can get annoying if it’s obsessive

CubsterShura · Answer

It can be nice and wholesome if it's done the right way. Otherwise yeah it's annoying.

Kaneki05 · Answer

yeah annoying and they be lying or really insecure.

CasaNorba · Answer

not at all on the contrary I am thankful that I'm not them

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

i think its cute. Honestly the dating world can be so horrible and cruel. Its so nice to hear stories of people really bringing out the best in each other. Obviously no relationship is perfect, but yes some are objectively healthier.

girlwithsomeqs · Answer

theyre just happy and want to share their happiness. if it annoys you it's because you're jealous. when im in a relationship i always find i love seeing other couples vs when im single i dont wanna see them.

StephenCF · Answer

Yes! It’s like rich people dancing around a homeless person 😡

jmzero · Answer

To me its often pity that i feel. At least from personal experiences, the people who boast the most about how wonderful they're relationships are, it always seems that they have the worst possible problems in they're relationships

bellybuttonlint · Answer

It never bothered me. Why would I want my problems spilled onto someone else? Good for them for finding happiness.

DeeToPlay · Answer

No skin off my nose if people want to advertise their relationship with the general public. all that does is to invite the drama of the world into the happiness they have developed. What purpose could possibly be served through this exhibition?

youknowbetter · Answer

I’m guilty of posting pics of my and gfs on social media in the past. Maybe one a year is okay but do not I mean do not overdo it. There was a study that came out 2 years ago that said this more likely leads to break ups.

wankiam · Answer

no i dont hate it, i just see the irony in that those who brag about such things are often trying just to convince themselves when in reality all relationships have faults

Anonymous · Answer

only women do that usually. (yes men CAN and I'm sure you can find examples of men who DO but it is the vast exception, not the rule). Men brag about things and accomplishments (relationships aren't "accomplishments" in male viewpoint).

katiesmuff · Answer

If your in a relationship it is supposed to be great so why not say so and why would others hate to hear that couples are actually happy.

Oceanlust · Answer

No. Their opinion of themselves is none of my business and has nothing to do with me.

Massageman · Answer

I would think that the relationship of the braggers are those who really have POOR ones and they're just looking for affirmation of some sort.
If the relationship is a good one, their actions should speak louder than words.

Flower7 · Answer

No, it doesn't bother me. Not unless one of them is my ex or crush. In that case, I'd rather not hear about it.

prettyboyjones · Answer

Hate is a pretty strong word for something like this but i do think theyre full of crap. Full of themselves ornfull of crap. Same thing, really.

Iron_Man · Answer

I feel like they’re blowing their own horns and it’s too good to be true

PeterCharie1991 · Answer

No relationship is great and never no arguments etc theyre lying if they say otherwise

Nalix · Answer

Not really. What's good for them won't be good for everyone, but it'll likely have some principles and perspectives that I find useful, if I can filter them out of all the kissy sounds.

G3tAClue · Answer

If you have to brag, it’s not going well... erm, in my experience.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, there is nothing more nauseating that hearing about some 20%er that is in a happy relationship while the rest of us sit on the outside looking in.

boggboss · Answer

No i don't hate it maybe question why they are trying so hard but thats about it

Jaded_heart · Answer

When I'm single, YES. Big time. I hate hearing about how 'perfect' and 'rosy' their life is even if I know that it's all for show.  Yes, I'm bitter.

An_Impulse · Answer

i dont really care about others relationships. i mean if they say 'great' it should be great right.. why the advertising greatness? :D something sketchy there..

Avicenna · Answer

It doesn't bother me. If they're happy together, great.

worldscolide · Answer

Not even a little, but im one of those couples.. so yeah.. My relationship is far from perfect, but we love each other to bits, and have a good life.

_SOARER · Answer

Brag yes, but I actually find hope in successful couples, especially when they act mushy haha :)  One day that will be me bragging :p

UncleJessieRabbit · Answer

Not necessarily, even though I'm waiting for a partner myself and this is someone who has been "dry" experienced most of their life except for a brief one year.

ManHater · Answer

I like it when I hear the girl going back to her abusive boyfriend and saying he will make things better when he missed her second eye and now she needed 2 to match.

Cool2000 · Answer

Yeah... It makes me feel they are constantly motivating each other by trying to tell others that their decision to stay together was right. Actually they are shallow ones who have not realised or dont have the guts to move on

thekissesofthesun · Answer

I hate it. I simply hate seeing couples being lovey-dovey in front of my face, let alone them bragging. I'm single, yeah.

ThecoolCandaceSims · Answer

I fucking hate the most. is most evil thing on earth. make yourself look like a fucking idiots. good bye idiots couples that might break up in two weeks time

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Yeah, it's a clear indication that the relationship is not great and they're in denial

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

No.  I just ask them "Okay, who cheated on who.. with what?"

Browneye57 · Answer

The engine of social media, is the narcissists playground.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Eh, nah I don't care much. More power to them. As long as it's not excessive.

YHL6965 · Answer

If they brag about it, it's probably not that good. The more they brag about it, the more they are trying to compensate for something.

Loser94 · Answer

Yes I hate it it's Soo annoying, like oh yeah good for you but guess what is it gonna last? Nope it's gonna end and we all die alone

Juxtapose · Answer

Bragging in general is a turn off. A lion doesn't need to roar for you to know it's a lion.

clampfan101 · Answer

Depends on how much. And on which subject. hehe ^_^;

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