Search Results: bringing up the past

How are some people able to give second chances to OLD matches that went nowhere in the past? Am I too critical?

*OLD= Online Dating* For context, I matched with someone from a dating app around May this yr. We spoke for a few weeks & he proposed meeting up but the times he kept bringing up weren’t working for me. He ends up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

*OLD= Online Dating* For context, I matched with someone from a dating app around May this yr. We spoke for a few weeks & he proposed meeting up but the times he kept bringing up

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Have you ever had anyone bring up past trauma in order to shut down or win an argument?

I've dealt with people like this... like they have gone through some bad shit in their past and you empathize of course... but then they start bringing this trauma up whenever you need to talk with them about important...

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

I've dealt with people like this... like they have gone through some bad shit in their past and you empathize of course... but then they start bringing this trauma up whenever you need

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Would you date someone who was a bully in school?

I've been dating this guy for 4 months and things are starting to get abit more serious. I met him down the pub one night and he was very funny and charming. All his friends have told me he's so smitten with me and I'm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why does society think trashing men today is justified only because of the past?

'Bring on the shirtless men': Why it's acceptable to objectify the male body but not the female's I can understand why some people can't stand society and want to give up. Because these kind of people are in positions of...

KlinkyCoder

Xper 6 Age: 34

Society & Politics

Why do people stare when it's obvious they will not help?

It's just annoying it's not like they are going to help. I have been suffering in poverty so deep it probably reaches the pits of the lake of fire. For the past couple of months I have been angry and yelling in public not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Anyone else embarrassed by their parent?

I know this is going to get negative opinions but unlike my dad my mom won't even dress normal or dress up. You cannot live in LA county without looking decent and young. First of all no matter what I say she won't wear...

Anonymous

(25-29)

AIAHA for standing up against the jerk?

Last year, after my brother passed away following a month on life support, a man named A, a friend of my cousin, started frequenting our home. A would travel long distances daily to visit us in the hospital. He is a...

happyfoetus

Xper 6 Age: 22

Is he just cooling off or done for good?

Hi, my boyfriend (27) and I (28) got into a verbal disagreement on wed night, earlier that morning he was saying how I am so special to him and he misses me so much (even tho he saw me the night prior). I ended up picking...

spicycrunchieroll222

Xper 1 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

I feel like my friend plays dumb for me to do things for her?

We’re both 24 f. My friend will get in my car that she’s been in 100x and ask me to turn her seat warmer on and acts like she can’t do it herself. She did this yet again and I make a comment saying how it’s the same as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to deal with this insecurity?

I've been dating this girl for close to 8 months now. Everything is great, and things only get better as time goes on. My insecurity isn't making me jealous, and it is by no means driving me to control her life or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I change my husband?

My husband is the silent type that doesn't keep friends. He never stays outside past 7pm, he doesn't visit anyone and no one visits him. We have been married for 4 years and we never had a reason to argue, most of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend gained about 50 pounds in the past 6 months since she lost her job. I brought up that she's looking heavy but she's not doing anything?

What can I do to make keep her from getting too unhealthy. She's 5'8 and about 200 lbs now. She eats a pint of ice cream every day or so. I love her but it's hard paying for her new "fat" clothes and all the food when she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is my partner doing on snapchat?

So I’ve had my suspicions about my partner for a while. We are in a 14 year relationship and are happy, get on and have regular sex. But the past year he’s been extremely secretive with his phone, if I come over he moves...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help me find out why i’m unhappy?

Hey guys, so i’m not 100% sure why I've been unhappy lately. I don't know if my relationship with my boyfriend is making me unhappy or if the reason i dont don’t do anything with my life is making me unhappy. Let me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What kind of relationship does my ex coworker want with me?

We worked together 8months. He tried hard to befriend me and he is easy to get along With. I noticed he would tease me, never compliment me or slight touch, but tease a lot and always start convo when he saw me, as well...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does exclusive "Friends with Benefits" exist?

or friends with benefits is a non-exclusive type of relationship? Lets say a 28yrd old lady has a relationship with a 43 yrd old guy. They had been together for like a year and some months. For what it looks like in...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do I have a right to be uncomfortable with this?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and two months. He’s always there for me, he makes me smile and feel secure around him, he’s funny, and caring, everything I could ask for. Today was a great day besides...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Less communication after…?

I’ve known a guy for almost a year and we recently started talking again. When we first started messaging again, he’d message me back consistently throughout the day and typically until around 11:30pm. Not too many breaks...

sweetslp

Xper 2 Age: 30