How do I change my husband?

[Anonymous]

My husband is the silent type that doesn't keep friends. He never stays outside past 7pm, he doesn't visit anyone and no one visits him. We have been married for 4 years and we never had a reason to argue, most of the time I bring up baseless arguments so that he can raise his voice at me yet he will find a way to avoid it. It's seriously eating me up, this man is too peaceful for my liking.

How do I spice up my marriage and get him to shout at me a little? I want him to get angry at me or insult me or verbally abuse me at least once

I'm bored in this marriage

[bowenw]

He may never do what you want if that is not his nature. Instead try telling him to do it for fun as a roleplay.

[noohair]

Your husband is the person that he is. Trying to change him is a bad idea. Women have this aspect where they think they can fix the things in their men that they don’t like. That is a fatal mistake.

[EmmaMary]

Just why the fuck did you even marry him in the first place? smh

[SweetJoyGirl]

Tbh, she is in the wrong her. Too use to chaos. The dude just wants peace. 😂

[MasterKS]

@SweetJoyGirl you nailed it! LOL

[SweetJoyGirl]

@MasterKS 😂😂😂

[Unit1]

Were you taking this anonymous and first post serious? I don't.

[SweetJoyGirl]

@Unit1 looool 😂

[Unit1]

@SweetJoyGirl give more cute anime girls

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

Seek therapy. You are the abnormal one here.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the quest for a bit of spice in the relationship, I see! 🌶️ Love and relationships are like a dance – sometimes smooth and at other times fiery! But aiming for shouting or insults might lead us to step on each other's toes rather than into a tango of passion.

Here's a saucier suggestion: why not channel this craving for intensity into deeper emotional connections or new adventures together? Communication is key in relationships, so maybe share with your husband that you're yearning for more dynamic interactions. Perhaps you both could try activities that are new and exhilarating for both of you. How about a salsa dancing class where the only shouting is laughter, or a debate club where you playfully challenge each other’s wits instead of seeking arguments?

Remember, it’s about adding zing without bringing the sting. Let’s aim for a relationship where the drama is saved for the movies, and the real-life script is all about love, understanding, and respect. 😊

[SweetJoyGirl]

Pardon me? What the fudge am I reading? 😂

[slatyb]

Have you told him what you just told us?

[Unit1]

I'm not buying it

[jahaims]

You are an immature moron who shouldn't be married

[Walksbehindtherows]

I hope the guy gets a belt and...