Husband resents me because I’ve been mothering him and nagging. Holding the past. We fight a lot and are very toxic. I know what I need to do to fix us and I’m willing to do it but he’s checked out and resents me and doesn’t want to try and fix it. I told him we should start going on dates and rekindling and forgetting and forgiving. And he just says he doesn’t wanna touch or hang out with me. He just wants a divorce. What do I do? CAn I fix this marriage? Currently he wants a divorce and is sleeping in the guest bedroom. I love him so much and we have a 1 year old.
As a friend of someone who has been through, I am sorry I can't sympathize you.
For your kid's sake, I hope whatever happens, works out for the best.
Regarding your situation: we are definietly not the people to ask this. Best would be to consult a specialist in your area. Maybe proving by actions that you are serious could instill his trust in you.
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You should have done that before you crossed his line. Since you where the nagging person you where the toxic one, you should have known that it wasn't the right thing to do in a good relationship, but you still did it.
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Seems like the only option would be counseling or to move forward with the divorce. The ball seems to be in his court :/
Try marriage counselling. But it reads like it's too late for any of that.
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