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First off we've not had sex or anything. But still

I made this accusation when for the 3rd time he forgot to do a simple tast I have asked of him.

I mean he had no issues excessively sexting me early morning but he couldn't send one text saying his job was having a serious issue and you know I won't be able to respond easily. You can do this anytime - including if he went to the washroom. So I waited for 12 hours & this is the 3rd time such a thing has happened.

He comically agreed with my comment that I deserve more respect, etc. however ever since that day his attitude has entirely changed. Comments that he was making about a future together, etc. for days - or weeks - have suddenly become rather up in the air iffy.

And I'm reading the change in mannerism

And feeling like I've been talking with someone that has been leading me on hoping for easy sex - and when called out on it felt guilty or maybe offended or like how liars don't like being called liars didn't like me pointing out his conduct.

My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?