My coworker said he was happy to see me one day.
He also told me that I smelled really good. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers but more brotherly.
He hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly.
Once I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend.
Then we both kept saying “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe.
There was a bug and he tried to fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
He had to train a new girl and they kept coming to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out he asked “what was that” because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Once, I was looking down and from far away he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and stuff and I was looking down. I looked up and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lenses. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” (Me)
he was like “hey Kathy” to tease me.
He knows I’m seeing someone.
Other day he came over and said good morning and was blushing and it got quiet and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then walked away. He didn’t speak to me at all except Monday.
There’s a new girl in my position working on the evenings now and she’s also kinda cute and he told her hey today.
The other day I asked where someone was and he told me and asked why and I was like “no reason” and he said “ok”. Today he said good morning but isn’t rlly talking to me.
I’m 21 and so is the other girl. The guy is probably 30s and has a girlfriend.
He also told me that I smelled really good. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers but more brotherly.
He hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly.
Once I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend.
Then we both kept saying “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe.
There was a bug and he tried to fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
He had to train a new girl and they kept coming to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out he asked “what was that” because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Once, I was looking down and from far away he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and stuff and I was looking down. I looked up and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lenses. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” (Me)
he was like “hey Kathy” to tease me.
He knows I’m seeing someone.
Other day he came over and said good morning and was blushing and it got quiet and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then walked away. He didn’t speak to me at all except Monday.
There’s a new girl in my position working on the evenings now and she’s also kinda cute and he told her hey today.
The other day I asked where someone was and he told me and asked why and I was like “no reason” and he said “ok”. Today he said good morning but isn’t rlly talking to me.
I’m 21 and so is the other girl. The guy is probably 30s and has a girlfriend.
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It’s seems like you’re overanalyzing little things and spending too much time trying to figure things out. The only thing out of your list that seems halfway romantic is saying that you smelled good. But even that could be innocent. Everything else came across as completely platonic actions and comments.
Since you’re both in relationships, it’d be a good idea to just focus on work and pay less attention to him. I’m guessing that you’re interested in him, so that might be hard to do, but it’s definitely worth a try.
Do you think he’s interested in the other girl?
And why was he blushing while talking to me then?
Probably not, if the only thing you’ve noticed is that he said hey to her. But both you and her are in the same boat, because I really get the feeling that he wants to stay with his girlfriend and keep coworkers as coworkers.
Just cuz a guy is in a relationship doesn't mean he is faithful or a good guy.. I had a work buddy I had a crush on we always hung out and joked at work but he had a girlfriend he also told us stories of him cheating on his girlfriend many times with a few different girls. Everyday me and him would always say "I love you" to each other when we left work and never to anyone else. Did it mean anything.. who knows.. I liked him but I never made it obvious because he was not single lol Would he of fucked me if I initiated it yeah most likely.. So who cares why he is leading you on you are both not single, he probably just would like to fuck you..
I’m not sure I could say he’s leading you on, but k do think maybe you need more exciting things happening in your life outside of work. Then you wouldn’t fixate on these harmless moments.
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