Search Results: qualities women look for in a man

No matter how lucky you are in life it’s hard to find the one and most women these days just suck. They’re not bad people just not worth loving.

Women used to really look after men and really respect them and now it seems men are looking after women.

Modern women are not wifey material. They’re unhappier, less wifey qualities, bitches, insecure, sluts that have had multiple partners etc..
women used to be much more resilient when they were ‘less equal’ to men.

Specifically, if a man is lacking in many highly valued qualities (height/tallness, wealth, a gym body, etc.), but he ONLY has the qualities of being a nice, decent person, and arguably cute (5.5 or 6 out of 10, in the face) and hygienic and well-kept, does that alone assure him a chance to come across plenty of good, decent, caring women out there?

Inspired by this post. I'm calling her bluff.

The Quality Woman test. Are you a quality woman to any lucky man out there? Vote "yes" only if you fit ALL (100%) of the stated criteria.

I agree with all of the criteria, but also made it realistic, so that ANY half-decent woman can fulfill it all. I didn't put things on here that are more subjective, such as looks, weight, age, etc.

And yes, I meet all of the criteria or male-equivalent criteria myself, so I would never ask for something I can't match. Feel free to make your own female-version for a Quality Man, if you wish.

Are you?

1. A natural-born female

2. Feminine in style and demeanor (at least, sometimes)

3. Heterosexual/straight (as in, attracted to men; not queer; not a lesbian or part-time lesbian in any way)

4. Monogamous; someone who won't cheat on a partner

5. Have clean hygiene (including bathing daily and shaving frequently)

6. Generally a good or decent person who treats others with respect

7. Possessing at least average intelligence or higher

8. Not on either political extremes, especially woke, progressive, or a feminist.

9. Not a hateful or toxic person

10. Not a shallow person or gold-digger

11. Someone who has a job, currently in school, or attended college

12. Someone with minimal tattoos (Let's say, five or less)

13. Not conceited, arrogant, or narcissitic

14. Not lazy or entitled

15. Someone who doesn't do drugs (including marijuana)

16. Someone with history of physical or verbal domestic abuse

17. Someone who has been with less men in their lifetime than their current age (aka, 'not a whore')

18. Someone with no STD's or history of STD's

19. Someone who has never had children out of marriage

20. Someone who has not had two or more abortions

Do you fulfill all the criteria?

Is this a new trend that started in the last decade or so, am I wrong for thinking this or am I self projecting?

I just find it funny because a lot of people I've known with low self esteem have had shades of narcissism and a strange inferiority/superiority complex. Are they delusional and this is just how they cope by bouncing between two extremes?

I feel like I'm no exception to this, because I find myself on this pendulum swing between these two extremes at times depending on the situation and circumstances, but I'm able to dismantle this nonsense by objectively analyzing the situations.

I notice this a lot when it comes to dating where people who lack quality options (or any options at all) thinking they deserve some sort of perfect being, or those who demand loyalty and respect but simultaneously lack morals & ethics. I find it so hilariously asinine.

Some examples - undesirable/incel type of men demanding some sort of make believe traditional virgin woman/wife BUT they lack masculinity or desirable traits (like personality, strength, athleticism, overall attractiveness, and competency, etc.. )

And overly sexual & aggressive women who lack morals & ethics and anything else desirable/respectable from a partner, and they do shady hoe shit demanding men who look like professional athletes with CEO incomes.

I just find the lack of awareness funny & kind of sad, I don't know what could be done to find a balance (at least not in a generic advice sort of way because a lot of these problem require immense effort & soul searching that pertains to that particular individual even if the problems are fairly common & shared)