Search Results: being stronger than your man

Came across this woman while looking at one of Kevin Samuel's video. Listed below was her comment for the video.

"I have a high value man and I just listen and do everything I can for him. He takes care of me and my daughters better than their father ever did. I am 37 and he helps me with everything so I will do all in my power to show my appreciation. I never called in to Kevin's show to ask any questions. I grew up with my man and him taking in me and my children was a blessing."

My initial thinking was this.

If you grew up with the man who is now your husband and knew him since childhood, why is it you ended up having kids with another man instead of just marrying this guy and having his biological children.

So I asked her this and her reply back to me was this.

"because I wasn't around him daily. We lived in two different cities that were close but still far enough to only see him summers at the Boys and Girls Club we attended. He wasn't the only guy in the city (lol). I also grew up with My Ex Husband (my daughters father). We're all the same age. I was able to spend more time with my daughters father because he was more assertive and went after me.

My husband now was a bit more shy and was also dating someone else. He wasn't my type He was just a nice friend. His relationship didn't work and my marriage ended. We remained friends and hung out on dates. He was always a gentlemen. One day we had too many drinks and now we've been married 7 years. He said he always knew I was supposed to be his wife. We still to this day are friends first."

Now let's say you were this guy in this exact situation with a 37 year old woman with a little girl that is not biologically yours. Your wife appreciates and loves you but you still have to see her ex-husband from time to time when he comes to visit the kids. Would you be ok being in a relationship like this?

Do you think in the 2020s, it's much harder to be between 10 and 17 years old? Or do you think it's much easier?

As a teacher, I think it's both easier and harder for kids nowadays. Easier because you have the internet and can learn more things on your own, if you're dedicated enough. You have access to more information (and misinformation) and really can learn from people all over the world, as long as you can speak the same language. You can also get real-world opinions from adults, like some of the teenagers on GAG do.

However, I think it's also harder cause you got more shady people trying to indoctrinate, brainwash, and control you more than we ever did in the 90s and 2000s. From CRT and "white guilt" to "toxic masculinity" and "trans-acceptance" and all other BS inbetween.

I'm SO glad I didn't have to grow up with biological men competing in women's sports, and then having teachers tell me I'm supposed to clap and applaud this Clown World insanity. Or that I didn't have to grow up with proud p-dophiles trying to brainwash seven year olds with se-uality and LGBT crap and will protest against any Florida bills banning that from happening in schools.

My students are Korean kids fluent in English who love Western pop culture and haven't grown jaded and bitter like Millennials are. But man, the world they're about to enter in eight or so years... No more role models or non-idiots left to look up to in our society. Yikes.

And I thought growing up in the 90s and 2000s kinda sucked...