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Hey, so I have a huge crush on a male coworker. We are quite close at work and we flirt together. However, we are not in a position to date each other.

I saw him the other weekend and we were both a little drunk. I ended up telling him how I felt about him. I asked him if he liked me back and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying that I’m lovely. Eventually, he said “yes I do, but we can’t be together” and then we had a couple of quick kisses on the lips.

Since then, he’s been awkward around me at work. There is a stark contrast between how he was before and how he is now. He says that everything’s fine and our friendship is unaffected. He even said he didn’t remember what happened, even though I text him the next day apologising and he said it was fine.

Every time I’ve seen him outside of work and we’ve had a few drinks, he’s always been very huggy and has even nuzzled into my hair.

At work, he is hot and cold. He used to stare at me a lot but now he seems to avoid eye contact. And when we have lunch, he used to sit beside me or opposite me. But now he either sits by me but moves his chair further down the table or he sits diagonally opposite me.

I’ve noticed he does still joke with me and his voice goes soft if it’s just us two. Why is he being like this? Does he have feelings for me?

I have a huge crush on my coworker. We have a flirty relationship and we have been there for each other through difficult times.

I saw him out on Saturday night. We both had a lot to drink and I admitted that I had feelings for him. Eventually he said the same thing but we could not be together because of working together etc. then we had a quick kiss (peck) on the lips.

I’ve just seen him this morning and he had no recollection of what happened because he was also drunk. He didn’t look overly happy when I told him about the kiss and he said “that’s not ideal, I wouldn’t have kissed you properly”

I was apologetic but he more or less didn’t care that it happened.

Now things are really awkward (for me anyway). Even though he was very drunk, is there still the possibility that he does have feelings for me?